Information

காதல் திருமணத்திற்கு Parents - ஐ சம்மதிக்க வைப்பது எப்படி? Part 1 | Inter caste marriage Tamil

Basic shortcuts

Ctrl + SSave subtitles
Ctrl + click
Double click
Edit highlighted caption
TabEdit next caption
Shift + TabEdit previous caption
EscLeave edit mode
Ctrl + SpacePlay / pause video
Ctrl + HomePlay selected caption
Ctrl + EnterSplit caption at cursor position
at current time

Advanced shortcuts

Ctrl + InsertAdd new caption
Ctrl + DeleteDelete selected caption
Ctrl + IEdit currently played segment
Shift + EnterNew line when editing
Ctrl + LeftPlay from -1s
Ctrl + RightPlay from +1s
Alt + LeftShift caption start time -0.1s
Alt + RightShift caption start time +0.1s
Alt + DownShift caption end time -0.1s
Alt + UpShift caption end time +0.1s

Annotation shortcuts

Ctrl + 1Hesitation
Ctrl + 2Speaker noise
Ctrl + 3Background noise
Ctrl + 4Unknown word
Ctrl + 5Wrong segment
Ctrl + 6Crosstalk segment
You are in the read-only mode. Close
00:00.0
00:05.4
welcome to "Love Guru" channel and I'm your relationship coach love guru
00:05.5
00:10.3
how to convince paranets for love?
00:10.4
00:15.2
3 days before a phone consultation client talked with me saying, "me and my lover has relationship for 7 years"
00:15.3
00:20.1
"we had no issues in our love and he will never live without me"
00:20.2
00:25.0
" I can't imagine a life without him,"
00:25.1
00:29.9
"We deeply love each other, but we're from different caste"
00:30.0
00:34.8
"my family won't accept other caste boys and"
00:34.9
00:39.7
"I'm at marriage age and they're searching a groom for me"
00:39.8
00:44.6
"so can you help me to convince my parents?"
00:44.9
00:49.9
so guys this is today's topic
00:50.0
00:54.2
how to make parrents to accept your love?
00:54.3
00:59.1
my friend have passion in dance and it's his career now
00:59.2
01:04.0
his age is 27, his parents will call him at daily night and
01:04.1
01:08.0
will tell "baby, you have good talent,"
01:08.1
01:12.9
"you studiesd and worked very well and if you try government job exams, you'll crack easily"
01:13.0
01:17.8
"otherwise join in IT for your core degree"
01:17.9
01:22.7
"or you can join in a IT job at abroad arranged by your father"
01:22.8
01:27.6
"salary is 3 lakhs and try to settle with that"
01:27.7
01:31.4
his family is a middle class family
01:31.5
01:36.3
he wanted to become a legend in dance, that will take 5 years more
01:36.4
01:41.2
already he is working for 5 years so totally 10 years
01:41.3
01:44.5
but after 10 years
01:44.6
01:49.4
he'll be a legend at dance and
01:49.5
01:54.3
that will make him happy, he will explain those things to his parents for 2 hours
01:54.4
01:59.2
he will reply like this daily and their parents will hang the phone, but
01:59.3
02:04.1
it's a joke like you should return to home at night even if you have night shift
02:04.2
02:09.0
they will talk like this again in the next day
02:09.1
02:13.9
they will try to convince him again with those jobs
02:14.0
02:18.8
this will happen at everyday night
02:18.9
02:23.7
they're trying this for the last 3 years
02:23.8
02:28.6
their parents won't get convinced from him, just clear guys
02:28.7
02:33.5
it's very hard to convince them
02:33.6
02:38.4
one can easily make a person to fall in love with them via psychology
02:38.5
02:43.3
because, all girls and boys since childhood are
02:43.4
02:48.2
99% have the idea to love, due to that thinking
02:48.3
02:53.1
we're thinking about love after we grew older
02:53.2
02:58.0
so all boys and girls will have this love as their goal
02:58.1
03:02.9
please be clear that, they're already have a idea to love
03:03.0
03:07.8
if you slightly trigger them with psychology they'll love you
03:07.9
03:11.3
for example, if you're at a bus stand,
03:11.4
03:16.2
if you want to tarvel to the city of love
03:16.3
03:21.1
and I'm stopping the bus called psychology, and you'll easily climb in that bus
03:21.2
03:26.0
to reach the city of love, that's all very simple
03:26.1
03:30.9
but parents is nothing like that, for 25 years
03:31.0
03:35.8
they'll think "you should work in IT at the salary of 1 lakhs"
03:35.9
03:40.7
"my son will become collector, I'll get a groom for my daughter who is earning 1 lakh per month"
03:40.8
03:48.9
and I want a doctor groom,I want groom from my caste only for my girl"
03:49.0
03:53.8
they'll have this things in their mind for 25 years
03:53.9
04:00.7
after 25 years, if you tell those parants that " my lover is not earning 1 lakh"
04:00.8
04:05.6
" he is earning 10K only, he is not a doctor"
04:05.7
04:10.5
"he is a dipolomo holder, my lover is not our caste"
04:10.6
04:17.6
if you tell like this, you'll break their dreams in their mind
04:17.7
04:22.5
does anyone allow these things
04:22.6
04:27.4
they'll never allow this, just listen
04:27.5
04:32.3
you can't reduce the belly devoloped in 1 year in one day
04:32.4
04:37.2
it's such hard thing for an one year belly, so for 25 years
04:37.3
04:42.1
your parents have dreams about your marriage, and how you can change that in a single day
04:42.2
04:47.0
this will never happen,
04:47.1
04:51.9
you can't change their 25 year old belief for a new one
04:52.0
04:56.8
how will they change?, it's very hard, just listen guys
04:56.9
05:01.7
the psychology used in between a boy and girl
05:01.8
05:06.6
is based on their interest to love, so small level of psychology is enough
05:06.7
05:11.5
because they have that idea already
05:11.6
05:16.4
but, parents is not like that, we wont need the shit called love
05:16.5
05:21.3
they're very strict about arranged marriage
05:21.4
05:26.2
and using psychology in this opposite mindset is very hard
05:26.3
05:31.1
so does it mean we can't convince them for love marriage?, we can
05:31.2
05:36.0
you have 2 choice, 1st one is
05:36.1
05:40.9
if you try them to convince them immediately for your love
05:41.0
05:45.8
that will never happen, for example
05:45.9
05:50.7
you can't destroy the dream palace built for 25 years in their mind
05:50.8
05:55.6
if you tried to convince them within 6 months
05:55.7
06:00.5
that will mostly ends up in negative result
06:00.6
06:05.4
they will never accept your love, otherwise
06:05.5
06:10.3
you can have this convincing thing as a long term goal, it's a good choice
06:10.4
06:15.2
you need to remove the each stone fro their dream palace of "arranged marriage"
06:15.3
06:20.1
then place the stones of your love in that place
06:20.2
06:25.0
then slowly build with psychology
06:25.1
06:29.9
then they'll accept in 3-4 years
06:30.0
06:34.8
so you can get a good result in 3 years
06:34.9
06:39.7
so never try this thing as a short term goal
06:39.8
06:44.6
you will only get results if you have this as your long term goal
06:44.8
06:49.5
we'll see about psychological techniques used in long term methods in the next video
06:51.7
06:58.9
if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
06:59.0
07:01.8
we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
07:01.9
07:06.7
by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services
07:06.8
07:11.6
if you want that services, use the link in the description to book
07:11.7
07:16.5
we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back
07:16.6
07:19.6
and we're giving 100% assurance for that
07:19.7
07:24.5
if you want to follow us on Insta and FB, use the links below to follow, Thanks for watching!
07:24.6
07:27.9
Thanks for watching!