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welcome to "Love Guru", Tamil's first relationship coaching channel and I'm your relationship coach XXX
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today we'll see about, if she is leaving from you
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and what things you must not do in this situation, this was a mail I received recently
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"Hi bro, my lover sometimes do part from me and I feel she is distancing me"
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"I don't know what mistakes I have commited, I saw your videos"
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"I think I have the four characteristics girls hate as you mentioned in your video"
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"like jelousy, needy, insecurities, maybe for this"
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"she left me as per my guess, that's why I mailed you, please help me"
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"tell me what should I do, that will be a big relief for me"
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I told his mistakes, why she maintain a distance from him and how to rectify this clearly
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he seems to be in a mindset of solving this so no issues, but
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I think this topic will help you so we're doing a video for you
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is she is leaving from you, she maybe busy, test for you
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or it maybe real. So in this situation
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learn how you diminish her interest for you to the rockbottom
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texting her and asking about why she's not texting
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calling her for many times and begging at her
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and promising her that you won't do any mistakes and request her to talk with you
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crying at her like a girl and scolding her with bad words
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and if you do things like this, her interest for you will hit rockbottom
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and she'll think that breaking up with you is better, as you showed yourself as a weak one
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you're showing that you have no choice, and you have no demand
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you establish that without her, you have no life
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you begs like a girl, listen she needs a man
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but now you behave likes a girl, I always say
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love is like magnet, if you and her are feminine energy then
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it won't get attracted, only opposites will attract to each other, a boy with masculine and girl with feminine energy will
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attract to each other, be clear about the big turn-off for girls
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they want their lovers to have many choices and demand
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if you have no demand then you're like an empty shop, and the one with demand is like a crowded shop
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now if you have two of this shops in front of you then where you'll enter?
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it will be crowded shop, why?
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maybe it has some high value things?
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and everyone will try to enter that shop so as you
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it's same for your life, now you're showing that you have no demand by begging at her
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listen, if she initially loved you
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she may think that you had demand, but now as you're begging
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you're establishing yourself as an empty shop
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now she wants to leave that shop and tries to breakup with you
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there is a best example for why you should chase her while she departs from you,
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my close friend is a girl and I'll tell the incident happened in her life
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she is a commited girl, but more focused on her career
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for four days she never talked with her lover, because
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she had tight schedule and worked without having food
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so fifth day her lover texted her,
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like,"why you're not texting me?", she said
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"sorry, I got held up in work and I was busy" and she hang up the phone
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she got work again, so she left that phone
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but her lover texted her again and again but she was unable to see
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and he thought that she was avoiding him intentionally
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and he thought she was love with another guy and then
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he texted 100 messages and dialed 100 times and
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after 9 P.M she checked at her phone and I was also with her
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after that she said the word to me, it was "hey, why he is behaving like this?"
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"I lost my interest for him now and I want to break up with him"
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she told me that, so listen, in this situation
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you don't know what is happening behind and you're chasing her and forcing her
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to make your interests to hit rockbottom, if you force her
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that will always gives negative effect, so if she leave some space, never force her
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and chase her, those will reduce her interest for you
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instaed leave her sometime and focus on your job
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after sometime, she will ahve the process of 'no-contact' in mind and she'll miss you
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then she'll contact you again, this will be the best solution for this
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so what is no contact rule? and how it will work? and give the desired result?
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we'll see that in the next video
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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