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wlcome to Love Guru, Tamil's first relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationship coach XXX
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welcome to alpha male series episode no 1
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in this series, we'll see how we can turn you into alpha male from nice guy
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first why nice guy? listen
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to my knowledge 70% of the boys are nice guys
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some them may behave normal to others
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but if it is girls all of them will be nice guys
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listen, relationship is very tough for a normal guy
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but for nice guy?, be clear
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they are very weak type, they will have no happiness in life
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and they will never get relationships, love and sex and their life is like waste of time
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I done relationship coaching for many years
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many of the clients are nice guys only
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they behave weak and feminine
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they have no love, happiness and sex in relationship due to being nice guy
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that's why from our channel
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we made this series to change you from nice guy to alpha male
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in one month you can't become alpha male
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because, you grew nice guy traits for 15-20 years
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that will stick with you and
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it's very hard to get rid of that in 1 month
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so in our channel, we'll change you from nice guy into strong male
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then we'll guide you to turn into alpha male
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it will take 1 year for you to turn into alpha male
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so in this series
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you need to follow the tricks, tips, tactics, ideas and behaviors exactly as we say to
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turn into a alpha male,
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we hope that you'll follow well and turn into a alpha male
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let's jump to the series,
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who are the nice guys?
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for the past 50 years the changes in social life caused the boys raised by traditional families
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to act good at others, help others, care for others
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and giving love to others
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to get those things from others, the nice guys believe that
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but listen, they'll never return those favors
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okay, how nice guys are created?
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2 major reasons are there
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1.loss of father's energy
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2.growing up with femenine, we'll see the first thing
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loss of father's energy, listen
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our father is a masculine energy, he'll behave like a male
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if we grew with him closely, then
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we should have also felt masculine energy and developed strongly
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but, suppose this situation, as many people's father is no more
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or if they spent less time with father or
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if father is also a feminine energy we're bound to be a nice guy
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growing up with feminine,
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it don't means the co-ed school or neighbourhood girl
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we grew with mom and
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closely grow along with sister, aunts
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listen, they all women, feminine energy
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if a man grows with females, they will also feel that feminine energy
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you will alsowill be soft and weak
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nice guys are created like this in resepect to 2nd reason
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what are the behaviours of nice guys?
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too much care for others
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giving something to get something
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being soft and silent and want to maintain peace
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avoiding danger and getting permission for everything
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hiding their mistakes and flaws
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want to do everything perfectly
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not prioritising themselves
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as they give preference to their partners
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okay, what are the things wrong in being a nice guy? listen
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they are very dishonest, they have something to say
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but they will say something else in-order to avoid hurting others to get their love
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this is called dishonesty, for example
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they're talking with their crush and her favourite actor is Ajith and for him it was Vijay
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then they won't boldly say they like Vijay
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they think that it may hurt her or she'll ignore us with thhis opposite thing
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then they pretend they also like ajith
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next one is they are secretive
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they will hide many things from others, like
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they may masturbate too much or addicted to pornography
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listen, it's done by everyone, but many
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will open about this, but they will hide that
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they feared about others judgements
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and they'll hide those
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they''re easily manipulative
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they think that they will complete if they get love from others, so they'll give
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love, care and help to others and
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the one who getting those will use that to manipulate them and
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they give that to get back, like
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they're helping to get help and caring to get care
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they're loving one to get loved back
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these all done to get as a rerurn favor
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they're passive aggressive
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they'll show their anger and frustration indirectly
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and too often, like coming late intentionally
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doing wrong things again and again
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even advising for many times, they're pressure cookers
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they'll never get angry easily
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they'll tolerate other's scolding, trolls and games and keep it in mind
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and that pressure will burst oneday
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and they'll show all anger at once
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they can't set boundary
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if you scold and beat them they'll tolerate
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and they allow all in personal space without any boundary
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so others take them easily and take advantage
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they are isolated person and
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they want everyone to love them
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but they can't mingle with everyone
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they can be alone only
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problem with intimate relationship is happen a lot for even a normal boy and he is strongg at some extent
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but they're weak, soft and feminine
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they'll never getback the attention, love, care and sex in relationship
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next, sexual issues
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nice guys will have many sexual issues like
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masturbation and porn addiction, erection issues, quick climaxes
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most of the nice guys will surely ahve any one of these issues
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this is what a nice guy is
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so in this video you learned who is a nice guy? and how he is created?
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and what is the behaviour of him, so in coming episodes
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we'll see why girls rejects nice guys?
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why nice guys can't get their required care, attention, love and sex?
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we'll see those in upcoming episodes
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen to any type of this issues
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by giving phone consulting and personal coaching and if you want those services
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we gave the link below and book using that
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we'll listen to your issues and give solution to make your partner to love you back
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