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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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guys when I started this channel, I thought about part time income
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and as I'm interested in teaching so I wanted to teach psychology for relationship
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so what kind of channel would be perfect, for boys or girls?
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finally I decided that both are weak
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but boys are the weakest as 80% of the boys are weak
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girls will be 50% in this, so
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I started this for boys in starting and
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and we'll publish 2-3 videos for girls sometimes and many subscribers will ask
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"don't make videos for them, it will make them even stronger, and it's a betrayal for the subscribers"
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this is the reason for outside but the truth is you're weak
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and you are feared of the girls getting stronger than you
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this is the true reason, I'll explain it clearly
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our ultimate idea is to develop strong character
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nut youre talking like you're feared about she learn things from us and leave you after becoming strong, is it a strong character?
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okay fine, I won't teach that girl
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what if another guy teaches her about this? or
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you'll have this fear with you for your life time?
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this is pure weakness, first rule is
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never ever fear about girl
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this is the number one masculine character, sometimes I'll talk with girls
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and I'll frankly say about my channel and relationship coaching to them
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they may get wrong ideas about me
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but I'll always share this info to the girls whom I talk with
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I say this because, if I hide this that means I'm feared about them
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okay, does this fear need to last till the day of my death?
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no, I have this channel and this is me
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I do this because I know that we need not to be feared about girls
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if you does like that, it's pure weakness and it's not a masculine character, so I'm telling it clearly
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don't fear of girls, importantly
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we need to make our partner strong, I'll tell about that in next video
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I posted a video called girl's other side part 2
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in that video, I said that girls will cheat you if you're weak
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the issue is cow is always eat grass, it's the nature the same goes for girls
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it's their nature to love strong person
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if you're weak, then how she can love you
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that's why she is going towards another guy who is strong
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if you're strong then she won't leave you like how cow always eats the grass
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so never criticize girls and try to be strong
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so she will love you forever
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and I adviced to change this attitude and many are agreed to that
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I almost posted 150 videos guys
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but I never get so happy like when I saw your comments for that video
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because I felt that I made you so matured in that video
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I thought boys will always blame girls and will be weak
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but after seeing that comments, I'm proud of making many people mature
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also you need to change some others things, we'll see that now
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guys most of the things we learned in this life are wrong
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for example, you misunderstood relationship from movies
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I explained about reality, like
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you have some idea about how to get rich, and misguided by your family and education system
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but in reality
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rich dad poor dad author and money pechu in tamil teaches
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how to get rich
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and for food habits and medicine you thought something and healer basker is teaching new things
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another thing you misinterpreted is
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"if I make myb partner strong then she'll leave me"
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it's a very bad attitude guys, i previously mentioned
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why maintaing relationship nowadays are very tough
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we had many issues previously, as we're 90's kids
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our parent's are from 70's generation and they get babies during 90's
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think one thing clearly,
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does your parents are happy in their married life now
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only 5% will be happy, I'm sure about that
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95% parents are unhappy
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including all parents, then why they don't get divorce?
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truth is, our mother got married in 90s
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if she got divorced in midway, what will happen in 90s
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they will talk bad about divorced girl
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no one will willing to remarry her that time and has many survival issues
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she can't live in her own
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due to this older generation things they survive in their relationships till now
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otherwise it won't lasted for 5 years
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now we're 2020's, think if you got divorce now
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a girl can survive on her own withouth bothering about what others say
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now she has no issues in getting divorce after facing issues in relationships
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so now maintaining relationships are very tough
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1 year before a client cried and said that her lover said breakup to him
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I listened his issues and told that we'll make her to love you again
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it took some time but we did as we promised
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she loved him again after 3 months and in the next month
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he wanted to become strong and enrolled in personal coaching
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I teached him how, it happened a year before
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last month he called and thanked me after behaving strong and he claimed that her lover is chasing after him
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but the problem is she is chasing him too much
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so he lost his interest on her
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and he is thinking about breaking up with her and asked me for solution
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this is the problem in relationship, either a boy or girl will be higher value and other person will be lower value
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so the boy or girl will breakup with them eventually
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this is happening like a cycle
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most of the relationship is failing due to this
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if you want to make your relationship to last longer
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you both need to be strong and higher value
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for example,I need to compare with english culture as their girls can divorce easily since 70s
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so if their relationships lasts in modern day
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that will be perfect example of ideal one
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very few relationships will lasts longer, like
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relationship of Christopher Nolan and Emma Thomas lasts about 24 years and still going
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because they're both strong and higher value
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they can convey their relationship due to this only
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I'll ask one main question, now you became strong and higher value with my teaching
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and that girl is chasing you and you lost the interest in her, now you're going for another relationship
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and you're higher value there and now also that girl is chasing
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what you do? you'll leave this girl and will look for another girl
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and this loop will continue again and again
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I asked this question to him and he can't answer that
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so be clear, does this girl loves you truly?, yes
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is she caring, understanding and supportive?
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if she is right pair for you?, yes
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as you're strong she is chasing after you without controlling herself, so she is chasing you and she looks lower value for you
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every girl will be like this and if you want change again and again
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you'll stuck in a loop, instead of that, think, she is a better option for you already
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be clear, why you lost interest in your partner
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once you became strong, she will love a lot
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due to this they break some psychological rules
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as I previously said there are some rules for relationships and if you break them
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interest on you will be lost
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that girl is breaking this rules and appear weak to you
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so you lost your interest on them, so what to do?, tell them
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about this rules and warn them to not break these rules
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and explain them how they appear as lower value to you and advise them
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then she will change that
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she will become strong like you and you both are strong now
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now this relationship will last forever
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similarly a married woman contacted me six months ago
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she said that her husbands look so weak and appear lower value
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she is thinking about divorcing him
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I asked the same questions to her, like is he truly loves you?
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is he cares a lot and being an ideal partner for you? she said yes for everything
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just being as weak and lower value she lost her interest on him
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I said to resolve the relationship rules he had broken
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after that he will look higher value
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then you'll automatically get interest on them and relationship will maintain till the end
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if you try others for relationship after leaving them due to their weakness
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they will also appear as weak and this will become as a routine
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be clear, one strong man will never fear about her partner and he will develop them
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developing your partner into a strong character is the only way
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to maintain long lasting relationship
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I don't know whether I mentioned previously, we already started a dedicated channel for women
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so be clear, if you have low interest and want a break-up with your partner
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watch that channel to develop your partner
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and advise them, I'm telling the same to my women clients
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to watch the boys channel and make them to be strong
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relationship is not a game to win alone, she is your partner
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your lover, husband and wife so develop and grow together
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then only you're relationship will maintained till the last
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so guys if you understand this concept
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mention in the comment that you'll develop your partner as well
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and I'm eager to see, even though I explained clearly
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some of you will do negative comments, they have two issues
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please rectify the both, one is
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most of them are insecure
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about that girl leaving them after becoming stronger
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if you're insecure like this she will leave you for sure
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so become strong men, second type is the guys who tries to cheat women
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they feared that it will make women aware about their cheating
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so they will do negative comments, cheating is weakness so do change yourself
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I can't respond to them, as this is a relationship coaching channel
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our ultimate goal is to develop relationship and we're doing that
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services
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if you want that services, use the link in the description to book
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we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back
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and we're giving 100% assurance for that
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