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this is the story of a married client who came for phone consultation

his wife recently gave divorce to him and

he cried after saying this and then he told everything

then I found he had one biggest mistake

which caused her wife to choose divorce, this isthe sole reason for many divorce

this is the cause of the most relationship issues

one thing, this thing cause chaos to your love or marriage life,

it's neediness and insecurity caused by that

I mostly used this word in a single video only

so what is neediness?, you need other people for your joy

if you don't have others then you will never be happy

example, if your wife or lover texted you today then you'll be happy

if they not texted you then you won't be happy, the issue is this only

so guys can you understand, you'll be happy if you got text from her otherwise you will be worried

then it means your happiness depends upon others

first know the definition of love

you need to happy alone and so your partner

while you both join then you need to share your happiness

this is the rule of love and it's the way it works

but now your happiness depends upon your partner

so you don't have any choice, so you

give pressure on her

you'll be happy when she loves you

it's true weakness guys,

you need assurance for her love for you

the problem is you need each and every time

then you'll wander like a lunatic for that

each moment you'll be nervous

for this re-assurance you'll always call, text her

you'll try to know what's she is doing

why you're doing like this?

you think that you text her at morning and got reply so she loves you

in evening you text her and got reply so she loves you, and she attends your call in morning and evening

so she loves you, and she answers where she is

guys if you check each moment for her love for you

you're torturing her, best example will be

like Reema Sen from Vallavan movie

she will talk like a mad person

you're torturing her each moment for this re-assurance

there is only one difference from Reema sen and reality

she looks like higher value, but in reality the one who has neediness is lower value only

you behave more weakly with this neediness

like you're always available for her,

you'll do many things to impress her, you'll confused about her love

you will think yourself as lower and her as higher value

you think that she may not love you till the end and

you'll die in fear of losing her, so your whole behaviour will pure weak

this will make her turned off for you

if you followed this then she will think you as weak,

girls need persons who display strength and you behave in opposite way

so she will test you psychologically and

if you pass that she will love youy and will leave you if you fail in that

we'll post a dedicated video about this psychological test one day

be clear guys, your neediness and insecurities

causes 97% of divorce and break-up

there are no new reasons

so guys married or committed

you need to remove neediness from you or

you will get divorce or breakup

so we'll post a video about how to remove neediness and if you want that within this month

then make this video hit 1K like within a week

then we'll post that video within this month