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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, India's first relationship coaching channel
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how to choose our partner?
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it's a very important topic,
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many of us don't know how to choose a partner on which basis
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many fights in relationships and many issues
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the reason for all of this is choosing a wrong partner
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so on which basis we should choose our partner?
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looks?, money?, some will say
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"I know that, It's character!", no!
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we should never choose a partner based on character
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this is the main reason for fights, break-ups in most relationships
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my neighbourhood girl recently got married
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after the marriage they shifted near to my house
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after very few days, they started to fight each other, and it happened all the time
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they shout in a way that whole street can hear them
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I think they part their ways in 6 months
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but, in the last two months, I came to know the issue
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because they were on same energy
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yes, we need to select our partner based on masculin energy and feminine energy
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the issue is, most of the time we choose the same energy person as our partner
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I'm goal oriented and my partner is also goal oriented
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I'm relationship focused and my partner is also the same
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I'm soft and my partner too
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understand clearly, I'm masculine energy so was she
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I'm feminine and she is also feminine, if
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a pair as same energy like this that won't get attracted
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okay, understand clearly.
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we'll attract to others when they have the things that we don't
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okay, that will make us to fall for them
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if I have no money and my partner has money that will attract us
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if I'm relationship focused and my partner is goal oriented
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that will attract them, If I'm not beautiful and my partner is very beautiful
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that will attract, if I'm soft and my lover is strong
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that will make us attract to each other, listen
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the thing you lack which your partner has will attract you
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if we're at opposite energy, then only we can attract
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if I'm masculine energy and my partner is feminine energy
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if I'm feminine energy, may partner is masculine energy
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or if I'm 50% masculin and 50% feminine which is same for my partner
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or if I'm 80% masculine and 20% feminine
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and my partner is vice versa
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so understand, if you have opposite energies like this then only it will attract
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that will make us fall in love, I'll give an example
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4 months ago I joined in a IT company, I was new there
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I was in training, during that time I was in cafeteria with my friends
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that time I saw a girl
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she was very beautiful and cute, and I wanted to talk with her
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and I want to look at her without any break
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I don't know why?, I got that mindset after a long time while seeing her
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a big attraction was started for her in me
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so I put eye contact on her, she also done eye contact
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so I knew it, she also has attraction for me
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but, I'm feeling shy, because
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that girl's dressing looked like it's from a highr position
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so I left taht for few days to avoid risk
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but still I gazed upon her, after 1 month
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training was over and they put me in a team
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and I'm surprised to see that girl as my team leader
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now we're sitting close to each other
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I waited for this moment for the whole month, but
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everything was changed upside-down, she started controlling me
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she started to dominate me, she was always
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very strict towards me, now all the attraction I had for her was gone
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I wanted to move away when she tries to sit near me
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I don't want to talk with her, in just 3 days I lost the attraction for her
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everything is upside-down now, you know why?
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because she is masculine energy as she is the leader
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she is the character who likes to control and dominate
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the issue is I'm also masculine character, I'm also a leader
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like to control and dominate, that's why in a distance
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she attracted me that much, but when she is near me
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I lost the interest as she is masculine energy
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and so was I, do you got the point?
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you can understand this situation?, so
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so our life will be good only if you choose the opposite energy as a partner
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if you masculuine she must be feminine or vice versa
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she must have the opposite level of masculine and feminine energy according to you
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then only, your relationship will be happy
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so we already put a video to find how much you're masculine and feminine
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you can check the link of that video in the 'i' button at the top
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then find your energy levels and find the girl with opposite energy with respect to you
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then love her, if you love the partner with opposite energy
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then only your relationship will be happy and satisfied
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and it will last for lifelong
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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