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Hello brothers, how are you? It's been a while we published a video and many of you asked for that
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and you gave your support and love which i never expected this much
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and it's very surprising to see how much supportive is our big family
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I'm thankful for your love, I was ill
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and many of you prayed for that, i'm thankful to them
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I never expected this for myself
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this shows the love of our family
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this is a unique topic and watch this with headphones, never watch this without that in your home
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some things are openly discussed here, in my childhood
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I commited many mistakes and many boys are doing more mistakes now-a-days
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and they're unaware of the consequences
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so we'll see about that and remedies for that, let's go
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do like our video, it will spread our video and It will help me personally
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let's see, first mistake is being desperate for girls
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"juniors than me has commited with many girls and it's happening for them and not for me"
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what is the thing I'm lacking?"
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overthinking like this, never expect the things happening in other's life to follow in your life too
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if you love a girl, confess that to her, don't bother about the result
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apart from that worrying and envying on others will be
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bad, and watching movies
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and trying to immitate those gimmicks to impress a girl
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normal approach is not wrong, but overdoing is bad
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like if she is seeing your whatsapp statuses,
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don't spam your stories with many love status, it will make her irritated
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taking love in a wierd way is a bad habit
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and many youngsters are doing this
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so never do this, focus on your career first,
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it's a common saying right? yes it as a valid point so everyone says it
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if you focus on your career, your thing will happen
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never envy and overthink about other's relationship status
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and try to be better on your life to get better things
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and fix this in your mind and work
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so never commit this mistake again, I43esw32 hope that too
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next one is porn addiction, many youngsters are addicted to porn
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one will never have smoking, drinking or other bad habits
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but they do have this porn addiction, is it a big problem?
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yes it is!, if you can't live without watching porn
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and if you think about that it means you're addicted to that
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many youngsters are addicted, say it openly
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and do comment about that in the comment honestly
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many are addicted to this and the problems it has
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is it will make you stressful
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we can't focus on a thing and while seeing a small
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and and they will overreact if they saw a slightly revealing body parts of women in public
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and it will create bad thoughts due to porn addiction
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that will destroy your personal character and growth
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so avoid porn addiction and
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if you want to see regularly it means you're addicted to it
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so be diverted from porn and focus on other things like
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spending time with family, listening music or
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see comedy scenes it will help you
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so from now on, get rid of porn addiction
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next is having unsafe sex,
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you may ask many youngsters are not sexually active, but it's wrong
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many are addicted to sex, I thoght this
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as a fan texted me on insta about unable to control sexual urges
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like he wants to have sex with many and
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he already had sex with many also and he felt bad about that
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and he want to quit that and I advised via call
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so for you sex is a normal thing
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if you overdo it, you're spoiling your life
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focus on your career
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and you can't be happy as it will only give immediate pleasure
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you will later realise the issues, and
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it's not a moral to have sex with persons other than your life partner
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and you have to keep that in mind, and control yourself
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if you don't follow this, it will affect your health also
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even it will cause AIDS also
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and we can do nothing if you catch that
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so avoid unsafe sex and multiple relationships
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and leave the thought of having many flings
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and quit that, you have to, I'm advising as a brother
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please be careful in sex
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never addict to these in young age, focus on your career and growth
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next point is not having proper skin care routine
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many are avoiding this, even I too
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skipped that in my college time and then faced many hardships
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to regain my skintone and if you follow rightly in college and school time
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your skin will healthy brighter and attractive
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if you ignore to care
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you need to work hard then, so from now on
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have proper skin care routine, we talked about it in many videos
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check the card in top to check,
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so use proper sun screen, moisturizer
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and you can also try serum, it's on the recent trend
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serums will improve your skin tone
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many types are there, among tthat vitamin C serum will
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improve your skin tone and will give brighter glowing skin
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so what brand we need to use?, from man matters
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use 10% vitamin C serum it will reduce your darkspots and wrinkles
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and also helps in making skin to glow
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it will reduce pigmentation also
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you can research about vitamin C
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all articles clearly tells it's pros
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this serum also have 1% glycolic acid, it also keeps skin hydrated
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it has no harmful chemicals such as sulphate, parabeen
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and you know about them
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they only make products for men and they also have free doctor consultation
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you can check that on their sites
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and that's a good thing, to use this
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take 4-5 drops in hands and apply on face after finishing face wash
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then leave 5-10 seconds and
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apply moisturizer or sun screen and
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do this regularly for morning and night and in few weeks you'll see improvements
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mainly your skin texture will improve visibly
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to buy this use the link in the description
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I'll give coupon code in the description, if any, use that while shopping
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then follow a proper skin care routine
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next one is not focussing in your self growth
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many are like this only, they will focus on other's life only
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and they will envy on others but will never work on their growth
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many are addicted in social media, I can understand
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Instagram and youtube are social media only, but they do have good things too
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and we're focussing on bad and entertaining things only
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it's not bad, but
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too much of anything will good for nothing
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we're procrastinating our work, so
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from now concentrate on your growth
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you may have any kind of things focus on that
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and develop on your self growth, focus on that
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if you never thinked about it, focus it from now on
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next one is being on a wrong friendzone
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does anyone is wrong in friendship? and if you think your friends are good and positive
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then you're blessed one, or
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you'll trapped with wrong friends and you'll know that too
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but we'll think like we made friendship with them
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and we have too keep that even if they exploit us
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and you'll trapped with problems only
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and you'll lack in career and self growth
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they will do many bad things withour revealing, and
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if you're in this kind of wrong friendship zone
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quit, we don't need that and if you can't quit keep a limit
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so avoid those to prevent your life getting spoiled
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you'll clearly know that too
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if you realized that
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then quitting that friendship will be better and
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a good friendship will help your growth
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and they will give better idea to help you and
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and they will scold your mistakes to guide you
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they will motivate and correct you, they're good friends
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keep in that zone and avoid the ones who use you
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they will never face difficulties without you also
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so never be on that relationship
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next one is the most common mistake, it's drinkingg and smoking, we covered it deeply in many videos
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so we'll never explain in detail here, if you drink and smoke
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it will lift you up not in life, literally
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to heavens, so it will lead to your demise
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if you're addict to that
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avoid and doing on rare occasions is fine
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I'm not encouraging that, but
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doing rarely will lead to quitting that, if you do regularly
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you want to continue that, so quit it slowly
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and in few months in oour channel
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I want to see comments of healed souls who quit those addictions
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I hope our brothers will follow my advice
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srinking and smoking will spoil you a lot, so that's all
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from the mentioned ones what are the things you're doing
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one or many?, so me and others will know that
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important thing is, if you do other mistakes and need solutions
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do mention that too, so I can say that in another video
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do comment, and follow me on Instagram using Id @saran_lifestyle
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you'll get photo posing ideas and reels
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and do follow our insta account,
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many interesting videos are waiting for you, see you in anotherone, bye brothers!
