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Travel and tell no one
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LIve a true love story and tell no one
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live happily
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Tell no one, because people ruin beautiful things
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Haters are like crickets (insects)
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They are noisy, and we hear them loud
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but never see them
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They instantly get quite when you get closer
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Can you think of anyone who became successful without
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attracting a tiny bit of jealousy?
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You might feel like blurting out some names on the spur of moment!
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Take a moment to pose the video and think about it
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Even Abdul Kalam sir's speech which gained over 21 million views
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has around 10,000 dislikes
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Whatever you do, however great your work be
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there are people who will judge its merit no matter what
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There are people who support you, criticize you,
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and others who don't care a bit about you
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Let me tell you the story of a hunter who discovered a dog
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which could walk on water!
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he was surprised at it's unusual ability and organized a party to exhibit the dog
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He signalled the dog to catch the shot down bird.
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the dog did the unbelievable walk as usual and caught the bird
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The hunter proudly lite a cigar and asked
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"what do you think John?"
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His friend replied," huh..your dog can't swim?"
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People who wish for success, and never achieve them
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When they see other's success, will get hateful and jealous
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Let's try to understand haters and ill-wishers
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First thing, they aspire to be you
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Secondly, they see as a threat
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Thirdly, they hate and pity themselves
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They are quite insecure
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They quit easily in the first or second try
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and such people lack the patiece and determination to try again
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they wait for their friends and collegues to fail the same way
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they hate watching others succeed while they fail terribly
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They find relief in discouraging others and seeing others fail
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Have you noticed this strange pattern?
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The people who show extreme jealousy are mostly our close friends and family
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They want you to be happy,as long as you don't outshine them
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Or else, they should also benefit from your success
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Our loved ones influence us considerably
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When you prosper,it will make them insecure and develops dark feelings
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If it is a stranger who wins the lottery, the feelings are neutral
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A stranger winning 5 million is good news
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But if that lucky guy is someone you know, oh the jealous fumes!
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A man who is inherently happy, won't get negatively affected by other's success
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Hate grows from despair and negativity
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Overthinking worsens insecurity and can hurt one's mental well being
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You'll feel sympathy for the people who envy you
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There are people who pray for other's downfall
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rather than doing something productive for themseleves
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Like how you wish your neighbours also lose their electricity if you did
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Hate and jeaolously are felt more intensly than love
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You remember the ones you hate more than the ones you love
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Haters will stalk you like crazy
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I can't understand how one can stalk and hate so much
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They'll look for loopholes in your story updates, to cliam it's fake!
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They hate to admit your success comes from hardword
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But it is mere luck
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They pray and pray your success updates are mere boastings and not true!
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They see all your updates, and would see to that they don't like anything at all!
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It's funny how they'll even tilt their head
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to avoid watching non-skippable ads
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This is quite true
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Because whenever a fifteen minutes video gets posted, within the first one minute
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it recieves the exact number of dislike like every other video..concidence? No
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Funnily enough, they work so hard on disliking
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by switching between fake profiles!
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They probably follows and adores your work
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The main difference between winners and losers is
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is in their attitude
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A winner will try to get inspired from other’s success
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Haters or losers on the other hand get insecure and green-eyed
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When people start displaying hate, just ignore them
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Never give them your attention
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True and constructive criticism are well and good
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It can help in your progress, so be thankful to such comments
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People who have no intention of giving a proper criticism
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are merely envious, and they don't deserve any attention
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Being ignored is the worst feeling!
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Such ignorance will help them rectrify their negative personality
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Another way of tackling such comments
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is to act pleasant and unaffected
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If you get a sarcastic comment
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Give a sarcastic reply back!
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They'll be taken aback by your unusual reply
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The runner-up often goes unnoticed
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The winner, on the other hand, cannot handle being the second
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The winner keeps track of the runner-up candidate, their performance and practices
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Competition is good, as long as, there is productivity.
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For example, a local restaurant will serve well initially
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But later on, there are chances of drop in quality
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When a second restaurant opens next to them, it gives rise competition
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Competition and hate also go hand-in-hand
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Instead of surrendering to others' hateful comments
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do your best work faithfully
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A runner wins or loses the race in microseconds difference
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You shouldn't bother how others are running their races
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Becasue it costs your time and efficieny
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It's not easy to please everyone
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Pleasing people won't help be successful
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Never quite
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There are people who that hope you quite
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But if you quite, you will disappoint the ones who truly support you
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Let me tell you something about revenge, which is unlike what we discussed in the 'Forgiveness' video
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Revenge is good-Winning without hurting anyone is the best revenge
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Feeling insecure is difficult
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It makes you hate even random strangers
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People assume things about celebrities
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they may hear gossips and rumours
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But later on, when they get a chance to know the real person
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He or she will change their opinion
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Haters will never recognise your hard work and commitment
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They'll compare your ten year's work to their one month's achievment
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Haters are capable of change once you inspire them
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Once you start talking to people rather than talk behind their backs
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it can make our lives a whole lot better
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Did you realise something?
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as you watch this video,you are reminded of all those people who wronged you
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But, shouldn't you think what YOU did to others?
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When WE judge someone else's choice and ways,
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we might not always know what he/she is going through
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Remember actor Mammooty's character in the movie 'Kerala Cafe'?
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He plays the character of a father who is trying to reach home on his child's death
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Such characters and attitudes are mostly unfamiliar and difficult,to understand
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Success is within everyone's reach
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Understand how hate can hurt people's lives
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Think how negative criticism will ruin someone's peace of mind
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Don't be a reason from someone's dismay
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If you were one to spread hate, it is very unlikely that you'll be still watching
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If you have hurt someone, with or without conscience
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let it end now...
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If you haven't watched the 'forgiveness' video, do watch along with this
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If you have, remember my words?
