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Hello youngsters, many small boys are our viewers, I mean
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boys at the age of 18-20 and many school students are also there
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this video id for you to avoid commiting some mistakes in this 2021
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and to improve your life by 100...no 200%
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will take about that in this video, what things to do and don't
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will explain that, let's see, before that will see about this video sponsor mama earth
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the first thing we're going to see is a important thing
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one boy has no smoking habit and any other bad habit
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but 99% of people will have this habit, Masturbation
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boys at the age of 20-25 are very much addicted to masturbation nowadays
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the main reason is our social medias
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and many things are there, masturbation is not a bad thing, I made a video on that too go and see that
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but whatever things we need to do corrctly, if we do excessively
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problem will occur more, you won't get satisfied with your wife in the future
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and you also get bad thoughts
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ecxessive masturbation is the reason, i will tell you a example for addicts
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if you go to insta and watch many videos, and one girl looks very glamour in a video
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if you want to masturbate after seeing that, then you are addict, or if you go outside
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if you see a girl with bad intention and after returning to home and having intention to masturbate
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you are a addict, you need to reduce this addiction
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you must reduce it at the age of 20s, does it's hard thing?
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no things are impossible for youngsters, and affter watching this video, if you try you can acheive that also
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it's an ordinary thing, when you have that thoughts
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just try to control your mind, second thing is
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watch comedy clips when having that thoughts, it must help
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it will helpful in getrid of that thoughts, third thing is
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don't be alone, if you have that thoughts,
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spend 1 or 2 weeks regularly with your friends, this also
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helps to control that thoughts, still I'm saying don't do it regularly
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but I won't tell to never do that, first thing to do in this 2021
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to control that addiction of masturbation
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definitely you have to control...second thing is you need to improve on your interested things
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boys below 20 and 25 are having high energy
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you can work hard in this age
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but we waste most of our time at social media, if you spend it usefully it's okay but
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we're seeing unwanted things instead of our interested things
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it's a bad thing, if you take me as a example, while at college my interest was
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photo editing, youtube and social media but
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I never wasted on it,I used it for improvement and my work
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I tried in that process, you can see my first photo editing
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in instagram, and see the recently edited photo on instagram
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if I got many followers, the reason is I improved my self on my interests
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so same with youtube, see the first video and recent video
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definitely you have many difference, you may have a interest on a thing
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some has interested in singing, music or meme creating
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video editing, youtube whatever it be, don't just leave it
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you have to develop and learn many new things by doing it so
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definitely you will have more benefits and you will lose nothing
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it may be also be your earning apart from going to a regular job
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you definitely can earn, some have interest in reading
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so study well and imrpove yourself on studies to acheive big
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mainly grow your interest as you have high energy level at this age
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we can develop quickly if we done it with a focus
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and also can succeed in that, so don't forgot your interest and
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put effort on that to improve more, if you say "I have no interest on anything bro"
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just start to learn any thing, not a big task
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everything looks big from a distance, if you see it from closely
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then if you start to learn with determination, you wonder "That's all!", so
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learn new things if you have no interest choose any new thing to learn
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it's a important thing, as you do it in this age definitely in future
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it will helpful, third thing is bad habits
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our boys will be more addicted to bad habits at this age, and will not talk about cigarettes and drinks
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there is a thing called cool lip and Haans
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small boys are so addicted to that, main reason is,
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we have a fear getting caught and do it in a covert place for cigarettes and drinks
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but this cool lip can be easily hidden in mouth and
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others don't get doubts, so many small boys are
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addicted to this, as its very hard to get rid from this compared to other habits
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so if you are addict to this habit just come out from that
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that will be good for your life, If I'm saying anything wrong, just think for yourself
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if you get rid from that it's only good for you, you can't do it immediately
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it's same for all bad habits, I understand but,
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try to reduce slowly, if you put 5-6 a day then convert to 1-2 a day
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then slowly escape from that, it won't have any benefits
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I ask thosse people, what benefits are you having in that? it may feel differently in starting
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then if you do it regularly and addicted you have no uses in that, I asked the boys who uses it
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and they mostly says "it's a habit for me that's only i'm using and no other benefits"
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so must avoid it, these things are
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spoiling your life and also your beauty
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so don't use cool lip and
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also avoid drinking, smoking, reduce it step by step
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then stop it soon, next thing we need to accept our failures
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persons below 20 are having hardtimes in controlling failures
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take me as example, initially if I got failures I can't digest that
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I will move to depression and I was a sensitive one too, but don't be like that
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everyone has hardships in life
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the people who are at highest positions would have faced many failures, just think about it
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if something bad happens to you don't think you are unfit for that thing
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many will think like that and make bad decisions after being at depression
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If you failed at something, then see a way to improve that
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we have brain, energy definitely in that failed thing
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we can give a better output if we put some hardwork
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so just accept everything, " yes wrong thing happened, I failed at this and got a failure"
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"next I will improve and will never setback from that" just think like that
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your life will definitely become good
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below 20 guys must follow this things
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learn to accept failures atleast in this 2021
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don't depend on parents fro everything, if you are at the age of 20 above or 19
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even at this age if you depend parents for buying a small thing is very bad according to me
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just understand one thing, we're grownups and we can earn
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you can earn in part time
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or you can earn from your interests and or get a job
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apart from those things, if you choose to spend freely at home after completing college
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and thought that your parents will take all the care, then you choosed a wrong decision
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parents will do everything until their health, then you have to take care of them
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so you have to take responsibilities for that from now on, don't expect them to do your small things or needs
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you should fullfill your needs after earning on your own
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so don't depend on parents for everything and fullfill your needs for yourself
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next thing is girls, " what bro
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you accuses everything and if you want me to not live like I want?" I can understand your feelings bro
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loving a girl is a not bad thing but,
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if you think "she is the only thing of your life, I will focus on her only and don't care about my life's path"
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" I only need that girl" then that girl will
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reject you one day surely,
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loving a girl is not a bad thing, but you have to lift your career also
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have to develop your career to gain her love forever
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also don't tease or make fun of girls
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what you will get from that, nothing!
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so do work properly and develop in your career, then definitely
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girls will come after you, so hereafter
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get rid of thought like " girls is everything and I can do anything for a girl" and build your career
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it's a iportant thing, that's all guys,
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comment what wrongs are doing now from the things I told or what things you like to improve from yourself
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already I done a similar video with different points and check that also
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will give you a card check that also
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give support to channel by hitting like, and also do comment
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see you in another video, bye brothers!
