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we all have set some rules for our life and if we break some of those rules
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our life will be successful, this video will be different for you
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my points will be different, so don't skip
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and do like so the video can spread more and it personally helps me
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that's a favour you do for me, so do like
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firstly you need to be selfish
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you may ask like, "it's very difficult to follow"
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think, 90% and above population in the world are selfish only
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for example, half of your friends will only with you for their needs
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so you may have felt that, but
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you're good habit will make yopu to help others
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and compromise for your values and make you to show love
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you may ahve that as you're a good person
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but most of them are selfish only, so you have to be that too
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what are the things we need to be selfish, you may do some work
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if you share your work details, they will be developed
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in that place you need to be grow first and give priority to yourself
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so be selfish in these small things and don't be a philanthropist
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and never ahve the thought of getting good name by helping others
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have you as your priority and
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if you're selfish your life will be improved
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you must be good at being selfish in good things
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so from now, never melt for other's issues and take care of you
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learn to say no, it's very hard to practice as
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we lived a life without saying no, for example you're friend is asking for help
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I already mentioned in another video, your friend may be very free and lazy and asks you to do their chores
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you may acccept that for the friendship
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you will leave your work for him and he'll enjoy his movie and
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maybe at outing with his girlfriend
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saying no will never break your friendship and
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in money, saving is very crucial
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if someone asks for borrowing money, you can help them if they're very much trustable
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otherwise, if they're not trustworthy
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never having thought of lending them money, so
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many things like this are there, if you think someone is using you
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say no without hesitation, they maybe hurt for that, but it's okay
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learning to say no is essential
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if you start to saying no
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your life will be improved and you can observe that visibly
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next one is taking risks and getting out of comfort zone
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if you're saying you're not in comfort zone, then more chances are there for you being in comfort zone
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you have certain set of rules, works to follow
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and you'll have that circle to grow in life
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they'll feared about taking risk
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so never think about that, I'm the classic example for this
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I wished to start a clothing line for a long time
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but I feared that if it will go well or not
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but I took risk and invested without caring about loss
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and I got success, incase
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if you got failure in your risk, you'll have the thought of doing better next time
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you'll leaern more, so leave from comfort zone
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then start taking risk, it will suit in many things
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if you're a shy person that's your comfort zone
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so try to mingle with others is a risk, but yields a good results right?
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so from now, leave from your comfort zone and
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do the things you hesitated to do
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and you'll reach success in that one day
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next one is treat yourself,
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most of the our boys will never do things for them, mostly
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they will spend for family and friends, but
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mostly they'll never do things for them and if you go in this routine life will get bored
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at one point you'll feel like, why we're doing this and we're living for others only
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and in that time you'll already lost half of your life
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so start the things you like, for example
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if you want to buys ome things, do buy those ones
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spend the excess ammount from savings and
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never spend too much, just spend for the things makes you happy
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if you want to buy headphones, do buy and a camera?
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do buy, do the things you like
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that will make you happy and
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makes you postive and others will like you as well
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so do the favourite things of you, even if it's small
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do if you makes you happy, next is
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converting from normal attitude into bold attitude
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what's normal attitude?, it's the routine attitude of showing our weakness
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but bold attitude will never reveal the weakness
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and do the dressing as you like boldly
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and in decisions you must be confident
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and never reveal your weakness to others
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and other's will exploit you if you show them
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if you're timid or depressed never share with others
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those are your weakness, now many will have felt this
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you may had this insecurity feeling of your dressing while going to mall
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if you have that feel, while going next time wear black shirt, blue jean
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and have a white shoe, so your confident level will be high
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if you wear black, you'll feel as an attitude guy
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it will happen naturally, so do comment after trying
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this is the thing I want to tell, don't be weak and create a bold attitude
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and travel in that path, it will be hard in the beginning,
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as we're originally soft and weak
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while practing it maybe difficult in the start, but eventually you'll used to it
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you'll turned to be a successful person, next
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don't be dependent, many are depend upon parents or favourite persons
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if you're an individual person
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that feel is unique, you're earning
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you'll have that arrogance and attitude if you do things on your own
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so try to be independent on your own
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and try to be standout and
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also plan on how to be independent and start
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it's very wrong to depend on others
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never depend upon friends, family and others
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be seperated, and it's not suitable for school, college students
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if you finished the college and free, don't depend others
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from now on, and move as an Independent person
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that feel will be good for you, you'll become a successful person
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that's all guys, the before mentioned points will be different for you
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and think deeply about them, then you'll find that they're all 100% working methods
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so we'll be successful person, if we follow these
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so we'll be a happy and attractive person
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so follow these things and what are the things you have done already
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do comment about them so me and others will know
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many interesting videos are waiting for you, we'll see you in another video, bye brothers!
