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welcome to Loive Guru channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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we must avoid doing some things with Ex, but my personal coaching clients
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routinely doing 3 mistakes again and again
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because of that many are
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losing their Ex girlfriends, so you have to avoid those mistakes
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for that only this video is made,
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first thing is sharing your pain with friends and relatives, I know guys
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it will be hard while being in a break-up stage and we can't control ourselves
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we will get mad and sucide thoughts
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and we'll think everything is finished and we want to share this with someone
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to get relieved, it's not a wrong thing
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but doing like that some times cause disaster results
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and I'm saying one story from my personal coaching client for example
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he got breakup 6 months before and
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he used no-contact rule for 2 times and his ex returned both the times, but
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his lack of communicating with her stopped him to make her to fall for him
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so he joined my personal coaching, and I told him that
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he already used no-contact rule for 2 times so it will be his last try
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I told him to listen my advice blindly and warned him that
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if he commited a mistake he will never get her again, be clear
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you can't use no-contact rule many times
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it will lost it's power after 3 times of usage
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I'll explain that another day in our channel
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so I adviced him to go for the no-contact rule for one last time
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but I told that it will take 3 months to work and he left after that
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after one month he cried via phone, saying that she had blocked him everywhere
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and he is crying again and again and I asked the reason
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and he said that the no-contact rule was tough for him so he shared his pain with his friends
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but he did'nt revealed about my plans and consultation
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and his friends scolded her to support his friend
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they did this for their crying friend
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then he explained the things done by his friends
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I listened everything and now I said that
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your chance is over and your friends spoiled it for you and forget the idea of getting her
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and I adviced him to get another girl and he leaved with a crying face
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what can I do now, guys be clear
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you have very thin chance after the break-up
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your friends is doing this for your good only, so blaming them is not right, but
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they think that only chance of making her to fall for you is by sharing your suffering to her
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but be clear, they don't know the psychology
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after no-contact rule she is returning because
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she knows that you're living happily without her, and you're higher value for her
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this is attractive, but your friends
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make her to think about you as lower value after they explain your sufferings to her
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do you love a lower value person?, then why she would do that?
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guys never share these things with friends and even if you share
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warn them to never do like this
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so we can do things faster for you
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second mistake, to my knowledge 7 of my clients
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done this mistake last year, it was the
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mistake of drinking while following no-contact rule
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for one client, his ex came after 4 months of the no-contact rule
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he spoiled that chance after not knowing how to love her, and he went for no-contact rule again
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I clearly said that it will take 7 months to work and this will be his last chance
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and he is going for the final chance
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he had so much of pain and he got drunked
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and called his ex and cried for 1 hour in mobile
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by explaining his suffering and love for her
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in that one hour he gave sad dialogues like "Dev Dass"
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another client scolded her ex in phone after getting drunked
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both the girls blocked both of them respectively after the ending of the call
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why you're drinking when you can't control your emotions after that?
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you're spoiling thin line of hope for you
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then crying for the love, if you do like this she will never consider you
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if you can't control your emotions
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never drink guys!
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third one is creating jealousy to ex
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thinking that it will make them love you, simply
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jealousy is like a double sided knife, you have to do everything rightly
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if you spoiled a bit that will end in a disaster
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and if you can't handle that, it's game over for you
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and she will know that you're playing with her
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if she think like that she will play again and will never love you again
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I know psychology and I can do that perfectly
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but you never know that, my phone consultation clients will come with compliants like this
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they will make jealousy after getting adviced by friends
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and without knowing how to handle they will end up in problems and will come to me
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8 out 10 will be negative results only
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be clear, jealousy will work, but
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you have to know how to handle that
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if you don't be calm, or if you want to try that
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then she will commit with another person infront of you
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services
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if you want that services, use the link in the description to book
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we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back
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