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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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what is the problem of being a nice guy
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this is the question asked by many boys
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they say that they're happy at being nice, and asks me what is the issue with that
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guys, do you know what is the problem of being a nice guy?, everything will be problem
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first I'll tell about general issues, guys
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you're a victim, you can't be happy in your life
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you're like a scapegoat in your life and you can't do anything in your life
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you will live like a robo and die like one, you will listen to other's words and will get scoldings
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you will live in depression and can't able to do the things you love
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this robotic life will last till the school time and
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your parents, teachers and your friends will control you
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after finishing school, your employer, boss and wife will control you
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you will do, listen and stisfy other's words and other people
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and you will live your whole life for others
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and at your age of 80 if you turn and look back at your life, it was only for others
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you can't do nothing and you'll be like a rock with sadness
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you will regret that you got nothing and enjoyed nothing in your life
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you'll be exploited by others in life, being a nice guy is good for others
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but not for you, I'll tell you two stories now
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you can then tell whether nice guys are good or bad?
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this is the story of my client who came 1.5 years before
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he got arranged married with a girl and it was happened in 3 months
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first 3 months they only had conversations, but in the 3 months first two weeks
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she talked well with him, then
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she said that they need to be like friends for some period
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his age was 31 and he never talked with girls as he was a shy type character
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and he said that he is a pure nice guy and he knew that after watching our videos
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after the two weeks she never bothered about him and she will talkn for just sake
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and she will give normal care with zero respect
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and he thought that it will be alright in future, but
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they got married now and in first night she said that
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they should become friends then they can move into sexual relationship
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and he never bothered about that, but after some days
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he realised it's a issue and after 6 months they still never had sex
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I was shocked,
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guys 6 months after marriage, they
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still never had sex, and he also said that she has no respect and care for him
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and he said that she is not giving respect to her mother also
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he said that he fits the aspects of nice guy after seeing our videos, and he asked for a solution
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and do you feel the pity of this after hearing the story?
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there is another story of a client, his age is 47
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his wife is 6 years younger than him and
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it's been 20 years since they got married, and in the first 2 years only
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she lived with him and then she went and lived in her mother's house
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they never got divorced, but he must visit his mother-in-law's house to see his wife
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they have 2 children and he will visit once in a month to see them
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after that two years he sponsored and gave money for her for 3 years
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and they will accept that for a formality
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after she got her job she refused to accept his money and he'll give money for my children
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and he will put that in the table, to be frank
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she just got his last name and he is there for the sake of their children's initial
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and he is only for their kids and nothing else
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guys the next thing I'm going to say will be awkward
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and if you ahve no maturity, then don't hear the next thing
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it's very awkward for me to say this, but you need to feel his pain
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for that I'll reveal, after their 1st anniversary
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she never gave sexual relationship to him and
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he will beg like a dog at her for sex if he does that
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she will accept once in six months in that time too, she will lie at bed without removing clothes
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and she will lift in the bottom and he will have intercourse
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she will be like a robot without giving any reaction
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and she will wait for the intercourse to finish
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after hearing this, I was speechless, guys
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do you think this as a sory, this is not a story it's tragedy
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one guy had no sex after married for 6 months
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another guy is faced this cheap kind of issue from his wife
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think about his hardships in those 20 years and it feels vulger when I hear that
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can you understand, after hearing these much of things
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do you ask what's the issue of being nice guy?
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so if you're a nice guy, develop strong characteristics by watching our videos
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services
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if you want that services, use the link in the description to book
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we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back
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and we're giving 100% assurance for that
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