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Welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your marriage relationship coach love guru
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before seeing about topic, many people are asking
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to post psychological analysis of movies, I wish the same
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I also posting atleast one video of that type for every two months, very recently
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I posted KGF 1's psychological love analysis
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that video never get that much reach and it goes same for all love analysis videos
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so I can't post many, but don't worry
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I'll post those type videos for every two month,so let's see the topic
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for many days, we never posted about nice guys
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so I wanted to end that streak, so this video is for that
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how to find whether you're a pure nice guy or not?
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I'll tell one sign and if you have that, you can blindly trust that you're a nice guy
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actually before starting this channel, I'm unaware of this sign
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but it's been 3 years since I started this channel and I have completed 3000 consultations
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for the past one year I notice this sign and I will find this after attending a consultation
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I will learn that if the guy talking in the line is nice guy or not, how
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while talking with me they will talk nicely, softly and with innocent tone
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like they will softly say, "are you love guru? how are you bro?, do you had lunch and I have this issue bro"
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their voice will be too soft
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and it will be light and innocent,
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I will face atleast 20 nice guy consultation in a month and 10 from that will include pure nice guys
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I will clearly notice that they're pure nice guy after talking for the 10th second
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first why these nice guys
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talk very softly and in a innocent tone, there are two main reasons for that
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learn about the definition of nice guys, to be simple
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if we gave our care and support to others
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if we fullfill their needs and act good towards them
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we'll get all those love, care and support this is their beliefs
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they're the nice guys, now I'll tell the two reasons
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first reason is they never want to hurt others
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be clear, what will happen if you hurt others?
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they will never love us back, so nice guys will never hurt anyone
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if these nice guys has rough and tough voice
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then what will happen, it will hurt others
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it will have the chances of hurting others
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so inorder to avoid hurting others they
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will keep their voice in a nice, soft and innocent tone
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they wish for other's happiness, they expect love, care and support from others
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so these nice guys talking in this tone,
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second reason for why nice guys are using this tone
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is they want to show them as nice guys to other people
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they can tell many lies as possible and they will manipulate to get good name, it's important for them
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why this is important? if others learned that he is not a good guy and a bad one
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then no one will give love to them and they are aware of this
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so to make others think that these people are good they
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do talk in this nice, soft and innocent tone
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I discovered this, when me, my friend and my other friend had conversation
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the one in the middele had immense anger among both of us so he scolded us in bad words
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he behaved very roughly towards us
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we clearly know that[UNKNOWN WORD], so we calmly listened to his scoldings
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suddenly his dad called him,
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the guy who shouted in bad words suddenly
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softly talking to his dad on phone
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he talked very much innocent
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my other friend asked him why he acted all of a sudden for his dad
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the one who behaved roughly and scolded us
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all along acted suddenly innocent in front of his dad
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so I learned this on that day, so i'll give advice to all nice guys
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if your voice is soft innocent and nice
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do change that and that is the best option to turn stronger
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and never completely turn your tone rudely
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that is an even bigger issue,
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'talking like a rough and tough rude guy'
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guys this also a bad tone and never talk like this
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be clear guys, if you talked in a rude and dominant tone
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then it will make others feel as being controlled
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and no one likes that, so others will never talk freely with you
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so this tone is also bad, so keep your tone on mid level
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never too dominant or too soft
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just talk with a normal acceptance tone
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avoid too dominant and too soft
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this is the right one
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if you have any marriage or relationship issues
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we provide phone consultations and personal coaching services for those issues
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if you want that services, use the link in the description to book
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we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back
