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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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guys today we'll see how to save our marriage life from divorce
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be clear, marriage or love
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we need to do atleast 100 things to make that last, I'll teach everything in workshop
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after knowing that only you can have a smooth relationship
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right guys?, I'll try to post every topic in a series of video, I wish the same
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you may got tensed and aske me to finish pending ones, okay leave that
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in this video well see about most important ideas only
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for this only most marriage relationship get into divorce
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that is availabilty, I already told many times about that in channel
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I'll repeat, it's my favourite example, that is Biriyani
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Biriyani is a tasty food and if you have that once in a month, it will taste like heaven
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you will becoem a slave for that
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if you ate that daily, then you will hate to see that
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so less availabilty will create attraction
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I said that have less availability with your partner
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be clear, this is the story of my personal coaching client, he got married actually
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we'll spend our most of the tiem with wife and specially in covid time
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we'll spend 24 hours with our wife only as he was like that
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his partner lost her interest and if you be like this
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then your wife will think taht she wants to lose you
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she may scold you in bad words but will never tell that to you
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be clear, if you're 24 hours with somebody even your mother will hate you for that
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then who can give respect, she will treat you like a dog
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so what is the solution guys?
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reduce the availability actually, my two friends talked with me they got married
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they have WFH for 24 hours and they will stay in home always
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one firend said that he can't be part with his wife
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so he asked me how to get attraction without leaving her?, and I scolded him for that
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he wants to cure the disease without eating tablets
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guys be clear, there is no attraction without space
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if you don't give space then that relationship will never work
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how to save marriages from divorces, this is the best idea
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and if you follow correctly then your relationship will be maintained till the end, what is that
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5 months you have no issues with your wife but after that
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you need to have distance from her like sending her to her mother's house or go to a tour for yourself
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do whatever, but atleast have distance for 1.5 months
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be clear, you're close with her for first 5 months
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now you will have good attraction and it will reduce for each month
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so take space for 1.5 month
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this one and half month will make attraction for you
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they will live close like next five month
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then attraction will reduce similarly for next five months so after fifth month
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give space like last time to gain attraction again, and if you follow this routine
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then attraction will be maintained for a long time
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then your marriage will never face divorce, except the fact of you being weak
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then no can save you from this either it may be GOD or Rocky from KGF
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guys 4 out of 10 marriages ends in divorce
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so clear about this as 40% relationships ends in divorce
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if you can routinely close with her without diving space
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then you will end up in that 40% list
