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(Previously) - "How did we meet?" - Our class block was about to head out to the museum when I noticed a 'random stranger' joining us.
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Then she talked to me and said, "Hi, handsome!" I was shocked, thinking, "What?" - Hey!
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- I'm just kidding! She didn't say that, but she did say, "Hi, you!" Joke!
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- What?! Not really!
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- This is a question from Jake's colleague, Arlyn Andaya - Hi, Arlyn!
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- So the question is, "Why is Alyssa so soft-spoken and gentle? Does she even get mad?" (Laughs)
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- Oh no, Arlyn! If you only knew. - She's not.
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- Kidding! - I'm not! - She actually is very poised and serene. She does look the part. - Really?
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- She is graceful whenever she acts or speaks.
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I think, we offset each other as my voice is loud. _Yeah, we compliment each opther.
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- Yeah, next question then. Thank you so much, Arlyn!
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- This is quite deep as well. It's from an anonymous person.
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- "How to find your self-worth?"
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- I think that's something you have to discover on your own. It's really more on
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knowing yourself first. Loving yourself first. And then once you know who you are,
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you'll be able to find your self-worth. I don't know. It's really a tough question.
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What about you? What's your take on that? - "How do you find your self-worth?"
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Do all things that make you happy. I don't like answering these questions as they are meant for when you're drinking. (Chuckles)
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Joke! (Laughs) - Where's the beer, huh? - I don't want to probe about it too deeply, but that's the best answer I can come up with.
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Do all things that make you happy because eventually when you are genuinely happy
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and you don't care anymore about other people's opinions,
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and you're happy with what you have, you can find your self-worth. Right? Because you know
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this is what I can do and what my capabilities are. - You have to take good care of yourself
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and then it will come out after. Okay, so that was hard.
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Next question is from my cousin. Hi, Marie Uyao! Hi, Lexie! Thank you so much
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for your question. This is kind of hard, but Jake's close friends told him that he should answer it.
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So I am throwing this at you. The question is, "What misconceptions about love
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did you guys have before your relationship and are they corrected now?"
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- Okay, okay. We'll do our best to answer that. Challenge accepted to my squad.
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Maybe, the first one is that you can easily resolve all arguments.
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Because I initially thought that, maybe from clichéd movies
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and of course, it doesn't show the real struggles of a couple.
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No matter how many times you talk it out or try to compromise, or try to be understanding about it
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there are disagreements where you just have to take a breather.
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You don't have to break it off immediately, that's not the answer at all. It's a common misconception
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that you'll be happy everyday. There's nothing wrong if that is not always the case and you're not sweet to each other.
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- Yeah, like what the song said, 'it's not always rainbows and butterflies, it's compromise.'
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Right? 'it moves us along'? -True. - Yeah, I have to agree.
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It's true. It's not always chock full of good times. And that's okay. That's good!
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Great job! Thank you so much, Lexie! I think that's one of the most though-provoking questions asked here.
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- What about you? You're not safe. - I said, I wouldn't answer. - Okay, you don't have to
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if you don't want. - Your answer is fine already. I'm just going to prolong everything. (Laughs)
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- Okay. - Next question is also from Edbert, I missed it earlier. He had two questions.
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The question is, "What's the best thing you love about each other?" Yes!
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- Your turn. - Okay, I'll go first. What's the best thing I love about Jake?
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Naturally, Jake is funny. Whomever he's with, Jake is the life of the party and
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I love that about him. I can just be quiet and he can carry the conversation for the both of us.
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Even if it's with his or my friends. He can do it. I'll just laugh at the right moments
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being the semi-introvert that I am. But anyway, for some
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reason, Jake feels like home.
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Really. It's cheesy, right? Jake feels like home. Whether it's a good
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or bad day, I know after I talk to him, everything is going to be okay.
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- Cheesy. - I know, but it's true.
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I can't explain it now. But the feeling that 'Jake feels like home' is everything.
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Your answer better be good. I didn't even think too much of mine.
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- As for me, what I love most about Lysa is that she allows me to play Mobile Legends 24/7. (Laughs)
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Kidding. Of course, our answer should be good. Hmm .. Maybe when she's there
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Uhm ... it's just automatic. Now, I sound cheesy. I don't like that.
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But, yeah, it's different when she's around.
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I feel like it's not only with me. SHe brings a different aura like sunshine.
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She's really a walking ray of sunshine. For me
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and other people around her. That's what she is and it's my main thing.
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I like that about her. No matter how stressed I get by everyday life
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once she messages me *BOOM* (chuckles) *BOOM* (laughs) - Okay - That's very cheesy of me - Thank you so much!
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- Okay, so we're almost done. We just have 3 questions left. Wow, three!
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So this is our most asked question. Are you ready for this, bebe?
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- Actually, I'm not. So thank you for watching our video. Don't forget to press like
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share and subscribe. Hit that notification bell. (laughs) - You're too much! (chuckles)
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- It's like you already know the question, huh? Okay.
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Many people would like to know. I will ask everything because each one is phrased differently. Okay
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First question, this is from @oretocss. Hi, Princess! Thank you for your question.
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First one is "When is the wedding?". Next, this is from @mikaro10, "Why haven't you gotten married yet?"
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Next, this is @bryanovencido, "Have you guys talked about marriage?"
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Next is from @zxcvbnmrvy, (chuckles) this is from Marviey Orozco, "Wedding bells soon?"
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Next is from my cousin-in-law. Hi, Ate Joeanne! The question is
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"When are you guys planning on tying the knot?" Bebe, answer the question.
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- Okay, so guys. To summarize ...
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Yes, we talk about it. But, maybe not to
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each other. I'm joking. (Laughs) - How dare you say that?
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- We do talk about it. - Yeah, we've been together for quite some time. A long time
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If we haven't talked about marriage, there's something wrong. - That's right.
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- Wedding bells soon? So to answer the most burning hot topic - Most asked question?
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- Hot question. When is the wedding?
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- Coming soon on the next chapter. Who knows, maybe one of these days, we will announce something.
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Kidding! - One of these days, really?
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(Snickers) - It would still take a bit of time. I feel we are still not at that stage of maturity. - In a few years
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I feel we still have a lot to consider.I think that is one of the perks
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of being together for quite some time. You reflect on things long-term.
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Marriage is not all about the happy times. - So, I feel that we are figuring everything out.
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But we will update you. Hopefully, there are some news soon.
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- Yes. The next question after that is like a prerequisite question.
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It is from Marviey Orozco, "Where do you plan to settle? If ever? *wink*"
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- Okay, where do you plan to settle? Obviously, we are on different locations as I'm here
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in the Philippines and she is in the USA now. We talked about where it will be. - You'll know about it
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someday. - It's a good thing you stopped me. We did decide on where already, but we'll let you know
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one day. Last question, this is from my sister @ish.uyao, "How many kids do you guys want?" Yes!
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- I only want 2. I don't know about Jake though.
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- I want an entire basketball team so possibly 12? Kidding! (Laughs)
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- Actually, I also want either 2 or 4.
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- That's it! Now, we have fast talk. This is from Erwin Lozano. Okay, are you ready?
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Fast talk. - Okay, I'll clear my head. - One .. Two .. Three
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Go! - Slippers or shoes - Shoes
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- No food or no sleep? - No sleep (Laughs)
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- Christmas or New Year? - New Year
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- Hugs or kisses? - Kisses
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- If you could be an animal, what would you be? - Dog - Okay
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- Movie date or diner date? - Dinner date - Okay
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- Someone you love or someone who loves you? - Someone I love.
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- Give up or hold on? - I think this one's for Erwin! Hold on! - Of course!
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- Craziest thing you've done for love?
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- To engage in an LDR relationship - Awww
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- So true! That is crazy! Okay, I think that's it!
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Thank you so much guys for watching! Jake, do you want to say anything?
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- My friends from the squad did not comment at all. (Laughs)- You owe us!
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- This is where you really find out who your true friends are. To those who commented,
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thank you guys so much! You're invited to our wedding. Those who did not, you failed the test. Joke!
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(Laughs) I'm kidding! Thank you so much guys for watching!
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Thank you to everyone who asked and gave us their questions. We hope you guys enjoyed this.
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and we also hope you enjoyed having Jake. Thank you for being with us today, Jake!
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Thank you for freeing your time for us! And of course, if you did like this video, please don't forget
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to give us a big thumbs up. Jake, you can continue. He said he wanted to do it.
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(Laughs) Don't forget to click like and subscribe and share and
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turn on your notification bells. - He's getting there!
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And cover your mouths always. And always wear your masks
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- Okay. - And wash your hands, stay safe and covid-free.
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- Yes! That's it, you guys! Thank you so much for watching. We hope you guys are all well and safe.
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We are sending love and light from the U.S. to the Philippines.
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- We'll see you guys on the next one.