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welcome to love guru channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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how to get rid of break-up, recently many clients
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saying this issues and they are too negative that I'm feared of them
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because they can make me depressed too
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this will get things worse, already
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we posted a video about get rid of break-up
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that video has explanation of psychological techniques and if you practiced that
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you will get rid of that, still
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people can get rid of that if they have this two type of attitude, we'll see that today
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this is happened to me I can't handle now, it will be fine after some day
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then everything will be restored and I'll be happy
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you think that you'll be happy for 100% after this
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expecting like that, but guys
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learn about life, life is like a roller coaster
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you'll be happy for 6 months and sad for another , and 6 months in depression
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and spend another 6 in jelous, life is like a cycle
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you will run constantly like this
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you think that it would be good if life is full of happiness
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learn, life will be boring if filled with joy
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there is no such choice so you can't be like that
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I'll explain why, Biriyani will taste good
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but can you eat that for 3 times for every day?
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it will get bored, i recently saw a Myskin's interview
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he said one thing, we have to accept pain
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because, when you suffered in sun, then you realise the value of shadow
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listen, always good will be bad
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shadow will be god after suffering in sun
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after eating tasteless food, then only biriyani will taste good
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same goes for happiness, if you always be happy then it has no value
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when you struggled in pain and tehn felt happiness
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you will be happy , so never expect happiness
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then you will never have happiness in your life
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roller coaster life will be good, God or science knows this
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so it's like this,, sometimes happiness, sometimes sadness
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it's a routine cycle and it will be like this only
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people unaware of this idea will think that, they need to be happy always
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they think that they will be always happy after marriage
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they will be happy always after acheiveing goals or becoming rich
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or after having a baby
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they will expect happiness always, being positive is okay
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but when you expect happiness you can't bear with small issues
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specially break-up, loss of loved ones
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then you will get depressed, life is a roller coaster guys
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then only it will be fine with rotation of joy, sadness and everything
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even after this many can't accept this
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they will be like beng ahppy after marriage or after some issues
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having baby or after achieving goals, becoming rich
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they will always expect happiness
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recently I saw a video about rich celebrities being depressed
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and all celebrities is telling about their issues and all celebrities are rich only
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they all look beautiful and have good backgrounds
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they all ahve babies and completed their goals, still
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they tell that they are depressed
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they ahve the thoughts of having sucide
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I gave the link of the video in description check that out
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you desire their status, which they already have
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but they all saying that they are depressed and having sucidal thoughts
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so guys be clear, after achieving this goals
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you won't be always happy, life is a rollercoaster of happiness, sadness
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so be clear, if you expect eternal joy
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it's not bad, it's a good attitude but
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be clear that negative things do happen please accept that
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accepting negative things is a must
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like 'Nenjam Marappadhillai' movie, shit happens and that's life
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so breakup or any negative issue, be positive
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it's not bad, but expecting only positive things
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is bad and will trap in small negative things
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develop the attitude of handling negative issues,
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we can manage those issues, grow that attitude
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I'm telling one last time, if you always expect happiness
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then small issues will trouble you, be positive and happy
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but think that you can handle negative issues
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breakup or any issues, you will survive so develop this attitude
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second attitude is future partner and certainity
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in most of the breakup the main reason taht pushes people to break-up is
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they think that they have good bond with their partner
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so they feel comfortable and loss that after loosing them
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they doubt that another partner will give that same comfort
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they fool them each day, that's not true
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there are girls and boys everywhere
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they are ready to treat you like king and queen
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the must thing you need to do is, if you're a boy
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you need to select one that gives that care
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if you're a girl search for the king your deserve
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so guys be accept that even if the current partner leaves
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people who treat you like king or queen are there
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but we still love our Ex, because
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we have scarcity principle, which is the fear of losing a thing
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now when you think that you will loose your current Ex
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then you will feel them so valuable, and
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fear that you will not get any better partner so be clear
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there are thousand of people outside for taking care of you
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your job is to find them,
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expect happiness and if you felt negativeness try to grow the attitude to face negativeness
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next one is trust that many are there to take good care more than your current partner
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if you have this two, then automatically
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then you can get rid of breakup easily
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services
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if you want that services, use the link in the description to book
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we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back
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and we're giving 100% assurance for that
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