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welcome to Love Guru channel, Tamil's first relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationship coach XXX
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today we'll see about
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why we don't need to talk about logic in relationship
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recently a boy from Trichy joined for personal coaching
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this is the story he said to me,"I and that girl loved for 3.5 years"
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"And she'll always say like Im her world and her life and without me she would never live"
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"and she'll torture me to get married soon"
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"she loved me that much and if I ignore her for one day"
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"she'll behave like she lost her life,"
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"she loved that much, if I hang up the call, she'll dial for 40-50 times"
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"she loved me that much, but one day"
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"there was a problem, and she kept distancing me"
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"I begged at her and she moved even far and I begged even more"
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"at last I cried, and she left me by saying she don't need me"
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"I don't know what to do, please reunite her with me"
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he said that in 1st day class
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and we analysed his story in the 1st day
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and we told his mistakes and how to solve that
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and in 2nd day, we teached relationship ideas, psychology and theme
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we gave strategy plans to him
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he went in that process, but one day
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and he texted a doubt to our official whatsapp number
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I called him in the evening
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he said that they had sexual relationship many times in their 3 years of love
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and before that fight he had lost his interest in her for 1.5 years
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and he asked her for breakup many times
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and that time she'll cry and
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she will say that they had sex so he have to marry her
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and she always cry and tells this reason whenever he ask for a breakup
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and she will say that nobody will marry her other than him
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he will ignore that always,
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but in that fight after she asked for a breakup he cried a lot and feared about loosing her
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and he said that as she claimed they had sex
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so he said that will make issues for her so we must avoid breakup
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and she replied that she had no issues with sex to him
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and she leaved him
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and in that moment he hated his life
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always she will say about their sexual relationship and forced him to marry her
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and she'll repeat that always
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but now she said that she is okay with that and leaves him
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he said that he can't digest that
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how she suddenly changed her attitude
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he get mental depression out of this, and do you know the solution for this?
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listen, there is no logic in love
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this is the topic of the day
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why relationship has no logic, understand the working of relationship
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it's based on emotions and never expect logic there
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and how you make a girl feel in that moment
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will decide her behaviour of that time
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the issues with boys is this only
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boys are thinking machine, life and girls are same
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and they think that girls are also working in logic
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normally in a friend, machine, life
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we'll think logically after getting an issue
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why? how? what is the reason?
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then we'll find out the issue and try to solve that
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we'll think logically, but with girls no chance for you
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as they work on emotions
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in that moment how you make them feel is the key
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they will react for that, now I'll give a best example
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if you're in a relationship for 20 years
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you're behaving like strong and higher value
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and she'll love you so much and will treat you like a God
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and she'll wander around you like a cat
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but if you act weak for a day
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then she'll try to leave you, because
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you proved that you're lower value at this moment
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then shell behave dominant as she's the higher value now
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and she'll try to leave you
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and even if you loved that girl so much
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even if you're rich like ambani or have physique like hrithik roshan
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whatever, you behaved weak in that moment
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then you made her to think that you're higher value
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she'll leave you in that moment, and similarly in 20 years to a girl
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you behaved very weakly, she'll wander around you
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and will behave dominatly
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she'll treat you like a dog and after that 20 years
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for one day if you behave like a brave men, she'll treat you like a God
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and that moment she'll wander around you like a cat
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because you're a higher value in that moment
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and you're making her lower value and you made these emotions in her mind
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that's why she is treating you like a God
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in that moment, even if you're bad or treated her very badly
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even if you never loved her
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or even if you're a begger or you have an ugly face
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you made the feeling that you're an higher value in her mind
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she'll treat you like a God and she'll never leave you again
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so can you understand, even if she traeted you like a God for 20 years
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she'll leave you if you behaved weakly for a day
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as you created that emotions on her mind in that moment
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and even if you're being weak for 20 years
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and in that moment you're creating you're a higher value in that moment
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then she'll love you so much
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it has no logic, if you strong at a moment she'll behave weakly and will love you
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if you're weak she'll leave after behaving strong
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another best example will be vallavan movie
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the basket ball scene in the flashback is my favourite
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that scene is very realistic in tamil cinema
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in that scene Simbu will beg at Reema sen for love
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and she'll ignore him and behave like higher value
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and will act dominantly and treat him very poorly
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in the next moment, Simbu will say that he don't need her anymore
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and claiming tat he had 1000 girls to choose and act as a dominant guy
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that's all, she'll beg like a dog now
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and she'll cry now, the one who made him to beg like a dog
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is now begging at him, is there any logic here?
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in that second simbu showed he is higher value
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and she is weak in that moment so she loves simbu at that moment
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here there is no logic
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the behaviour of the girl will depend on how you make that girl to feel
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this guy came for personal coaching behaved weakly in that moment and she acted dominantly
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so she left him, so for next time
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when a girl is leaving or behaving dominantly
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in that time never talk logic like, we had sex
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or we loved for so many days or proclaiming that you're the best choice
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that will make her to treat you as a lower value
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instead, just act strong and higher value like vallavan simbu
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she'll behave weakly like that heroine and
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will chase you and love you like a God
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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