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welcome to love guru channel,I'm your relationship coach Love Guru
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this is the story of my phone consultation client, she said that she is loving a boy for 3 years and it's one side
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he never knew about that, for the last two months
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me and that boy are chatting, and it's on basic level
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the issue is she don't know how to talk with him, she thinks taht she may screw this
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she is very much worried, so
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so she asked how to talk with him in chat, so I said
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to understand the situation, as many basic ideas there for to project ourself as attractive to other humans
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many ideas are there and I said that I will explain the basic 7 ideas
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I'll teach that 7 ideas in simple way today
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1.be fun, your ultimate goal of the conversation should be fun
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many girls are carrying your conversation in a boring way
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and in a serious way, do you think that
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you can live 40-50 years with a person who talks seriously?
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no chance, if you always talked like this then
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that boy will think that you're like this only
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so be clear, your conversation must be funnier
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if you keep that convo funnier then youn will look attractive to that guy
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2.speak mutual connection, the issue is
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we find very few people who are mutually connecting
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for example, you're a pet lover and want to talk about that
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but no one is there to understand and feel that thing
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it will make your life empty and
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if you got your favourite person as a pet lover like you, then how it will be?
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we wish to talk with them always and they do the same
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if you connected mutually then
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they will attracted towards you as mutually connected persons
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are very rare, understand that
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3.tease him, many girls
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willobey everything your boyfriend says and no one likes that kind of slaves
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if you face someone like this the do you willling to talk with them?
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you will hate to talk with them as they're like slaves obeying orders
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whoever trolls us, not extremely but naturally
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they're true to themselves, if you besties are always agree to you
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no they will troll you and you like them for what they are
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so tease the opposite guy and he will love that
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if you be like a slave then you will suffer
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4.be yourself, I'm seeing many girls
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they're faking their character to impress them
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they may get attracted to that fake personality, but
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the issue is you can't act lifelong like that
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so never fake yourself and be attractive with natural character
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you can't act till the end and whenever you do this then hit yourself
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to remind this, okay
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5.show that you don't have ego, many girls have ego issues
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maybe they think that they will get poorly treated by men for their antics
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so they behave with ego
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now I'm here, if some boy behaved with ego then I'll behave in the same way
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if you show ego then they will show the same ego
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people will always mirror you, if he never texted today
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then do text and show that you have no ego, if you showed ego then people will behave in the same way
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so clearly understand and never show ego
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6.create a connection with him the problem is
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no one will making connection with their partners,
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like I go to gym and will talk well with my gym coach for the day
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that's all and if I left him for some days then he will ignore me and i'll also ignore him
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I'll again see him and will talk well with him
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and he will talk in the moment only and this
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is the basic connection, so what he need to think about me other than this
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so we have normal business and that's all, never be like this
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that will be bland like sand, so
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always keep connection, like you're saying that
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you like a model from audi
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then if he says that he saw that audi car someday, then it's a connection
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as he thinked about your favourite thing
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you gave some pet name to him or vice versa, this is a connection
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he need to feel you when you're not there taht's called connection
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so think about the connection you want to make with them
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otherwise, he will think you talk with them for timepass
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never be like that, 7.behave like an opposite sex
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as I previously said the most seductive quality is
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just make them feel as opposite sex
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I'm a masculine energy and if the girl near me is feminine energy, then I can't control
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I'll automatically attracted towards her
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it will automatically pulls me, it's world's nature
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it's like magnets, so if he is masculine
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behave as feminine and he will not able to control
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he will automatically attracted towards you
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all these things are most seductive quality
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the thing that attracts a boy is being opposite energy
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be feminine for masculine and vice versa, be in midlevel if he is in mddle stage
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I already posted a video about masculinity and feminity
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click I button so see that video
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I'll post a another video for how to text to your boyfriend
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