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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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already I posted about best dating apps and if you didn't watched it yet
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click the 'i' button to see that video
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today we'll see about the things we need to get more matches in dating apps
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guys be clear, dating apps are way better, why?
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because it stops too much drama
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many boys can't ask a girl in social media about her relationship status
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I'm not saying about everyone, I'm talking about 60% of the boys
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to my knowledge I saw men who wasted their good period of 6 months by talking to a committed girl
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also I saw guys wasted time on girls who has no relationshi interests
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some guys will waste almost a year on that type of girls
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guys dating apps stops these kind of dramas
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if a girl likes your profile then only she gives like here, so no drama and direct dating
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guys be clear, we won't waste time on uninterested girls
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she gave match because she likes us
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she is talking with us because she has interest in relationship
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some girls will mention in their profile that they're not interested in relationship so never consider them
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there is no friendzone here, only direct dating
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except in some cases due to lack of your communication, you may get friendzoned here too
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I hope you understand the advantages you had it here
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in the beginning I had no belief in dating apps, I give up on that after using for a week
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then my friend came and showed his profile as he got 60-70 matches in 3 months
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I shocked, then only I realised it has that much of worth
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he said that he had minimum 2 dates a week
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then I realised the worth of dating app and then we both discussed
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about why he got that much of matches
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I came up with 4 major things and if you do it rightly
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your profile will get more matches and I'll tell that now
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first thing you need to change in dating app is your photo
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the quality and richness of your photo is important, I mean photos taken with a DSLR
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that much your profile will attract others and also
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your profile also need to have some value
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like you need to be rich, have good physique or you must look handsome
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thsi value will make them to select match, otherwise
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your photo will look dummy and she will assume the same for you
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some value must be exposed in your photo and it's important
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second thing you need to focus is beard
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I have seen many profiles and boys will have clean shaved pics
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the problem with that is, girls need only men
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they will assume you as boys if you have clean shaved, they need men for dating
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full shave look will make you look like a boy and feminine
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be clear, if you're a feminine boy it has no issues
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if you're a masculine men and appear feminine like this
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most of the girls will be feminine only so
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they will have no attraction and will reject your profile
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so be clear guys, if you look with a beard in your profile like a masculine men
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then girls will attracted towards you and will yield some matches
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otherwise they will reject you
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third thing is fear that is they will put some uninteresting things
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like some boys put their college details like [UNKNOWN WORD] college of engineering and hse may unaware of that college
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she will think that yo're weak as your college name itself is looks weak
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be clear, if you put Anna University, PSG or SRM then it would make her feel to value you
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no one will respect these kind of unknown colleges
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I'm not saying to put fake details, but
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avoid putting details of unknown college or work spaces
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it will make her to immediately reject you, so if you have poor reputated things like this
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then never put that in bio, if you have any info that makes you feel proud
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put that in bio
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fourth thing is description, it should make her to give match but half of the guys description will make them to run
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because they put serious professional descriptions
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they will reject thinking that life with you will be a serious one
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guys be clear, every girl wants to hang out with a funny person
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they want to spend time with them, if you put serious and professional description
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they will think you as a boring person
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your description will project you
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if you have fun and jolly description then they will think you as a funny person and likes you
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I found that some girls use psychology in their profile
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like many profile will have this description
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"if you want fun swipe right, if you want regret swipe left"
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it means that if you want fun time give match and if you want to regret then don't give that
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in the beginning I saw girls with these description
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when I want to reject then I feel that what if I will regret for this
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and psychology rule FOMO-Fear of missing out happens here
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we'll value a object if we will value that automatically
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and that theory works on me and the fear of losing her
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subconciously I give match, eventough I disliked her
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during these kind of period you put serious ones
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so guys always put positive and fun description wich will project your aura
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if you change this 4 things in your dating profile it will give many matches
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use this and be happy
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