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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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there are many rules to talk with girls, but basically 3 rules are there
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that rules are ignored by many guys, so we'll see about those rules
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first rule in phone conversation is calm voice
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I saw many times, most of the boys do this big mistake while talking with girls
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that is shivering and talking, and next one is running
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they will orate something, because they have fear
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they will have nervous while talking and will orate everything like running notes
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guys the thing I'm saying again and again in our channel is
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girls will love strong character boys only, they're important to them
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she will know about you after the 10th second of your nervous talk
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that is you're faint hearted and she will lost her interest
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then she will avoid you very gradually
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you need to talk very calmly and slowly while talking with girls
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like tell me, yeah, don't talk like you know everything,
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I'll smash you if you show attitude, I'll kill you my dear
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if you talk like this then she will feel confident and strong about you
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rule 2: flow speech
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one of my firend during his college time, will write what topics he should talk with his girl on daily basis
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he will make a list, first want to talk about her college
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25 minutes for that, next one is about her favourite subject engineering dynamics
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and will talk about for 15 minutes and 20 minutes about the jasmine flowers she wore the day before
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and 15 minutes about her strict dad and
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20 minutes about the reason for her delay to the class
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totally 1.30 hours and he planned like this
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the worst point is he will also wrote subpoints for these 5 ones in his mind
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while talking he will ensure that he is right on track
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and time management,
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if he missed topics or failed in time management he can't adjust that
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then he will tremble and what will happen, first point will come here and she'll lost her interest
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guys listen, we can't speak like a programmed machine
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no chance, you can't do that
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so never try like this you'll make yourself weak, instead try to speak in flow
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it will be hard for few days, but if you practice
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in very few days you'll be able to talk flowly that will attract you
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for example she will tell that "I asked for money and my mom hit me"
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yeah, she must asked with politeness, she may asked with rudeness so her mom beat her
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she will tell that "you know that, I just asked for the facial"
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now we can say that is your father is bound to earn only for your facial, then she'll be like, "then why a father should earn?"
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then we'll say that, "first give your phone to your mom, I'll tell her to beat you again!", guys just like this
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try to speak with a flow
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rule 3: fun conversation
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understand guys, whenever you try to speak with a girl try to understand your goal
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your goal is casual fun conversation, you need to do that
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but most of the boys doing like, "nandhini did you renewed bus pass?, 12b bus will arrive on 8.30 or 7.30?"
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"why you're not adding more salt in food?" if you speak salted like these
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then she'll not even talk with your bloodline
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guys please, don't kill her with your talk of boredom
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every girl wants a boy to speak with fun and make her life more fun
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so your goal must be casual, fun conversation
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we're doing another mistake, that is sharing sad and negative conversations
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guys be clear, boys are thinking that, if we share our difficulties
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then she will love us with sympathy, it's wrong calculation
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you can speak with sadness and negativity but very rarely
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they will accept that, but if yoy talk like that all the time
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then no one will be with you, even it's your mother
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for example your friend got breakup and in first two days
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he will share his story and cries, we'll also connect with him and
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we'll cheer him up, but
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he'll daily tell his negative story and will kill us
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we'll think in the sth day that, "thank god your lover got escaped from you!"
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"otherwise you'll torture her with this same kind of talk"
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we'll think like that for 100%
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so guys be clear that, if you're speaking sad or negative, they will support you at some times only either it should be your lover or friend
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or if you talk like that all the time
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no one will like to talk with you
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you will have the goal of casual and fun conversation always
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like she said "hey one guy tried tio hit on me in the road", we'll say that "did you slap him with sandalos or not?"
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"does he have a taste or something, he spoils the reputation of the boys!"
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she will scold you, "you dumb buffalo, I'm a fool for telling this to you"
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we'll say "leave it honey, everyone will look at strange things in the road"
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guys just be fun, basically
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These 3 rules must be followed while talking to a girl, 1.calm voice, 2.flow speech, 3.fun conversation
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I thought you beginners level now, soon
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