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Welcome to Love Guru channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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today we'll see about how to solve boy bestie issues, the important issue we consider here is
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a general mistake we often do
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and we'll see about the solution for that as well
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and you'll understand the mistake only after a big story for example and then
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you'll understand everything, actually
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I'm very interested in psychology from very young age,
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and I started working on it from 11th Std, I'll observe other's actions
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and thinks why some people will get their job done by talking and others won't?
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why few can make others smile, while others fail at that?
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why someone attract everyone easily, while others are hated by everyone?
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I done analysis and research on this from 11th Std
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actually due to lack of Internet facilities, I'm able to crack up only 40% on my own
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remaining 60% was took some time to discover
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because then I worked deeply with internet
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I always talks with all types of people including boys, girls, uncle, grandparents
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I'll leave no one and
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I'll ask doubts from strongly behaving boys and girls
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and they'll cry at me to leave then only I'll leave them
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after that I reached 80-85% of knowledge
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I done that in detail, like what to do if they looked angrily, smiled at us
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if they sit towards us or not
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I done everything deeply, but after I completely landed at something
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I thought that psychology is very simple, there are many things
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we don't need that much, we can simply describe that
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even though I learned that much, it won't needed at all
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simple understanding is the best solution
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I'll always explain simply towards my clients
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and will never go for detailed expolaination as it may confuse them
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wife was asking divorce from my married client
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and he asked me to solve, so I simply explained and he asked me to explain it deeply
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I warned him that it will confuse him, but he was adamant, so I explained in detail
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now he will always asks doubts, like what I need if she smiles or she is looking mad at me?
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and what to do if she asks me whether I had food or not?
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if she asks how are you?, just say fine, good or great
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that is the problem here, if you dig deeply into that
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you'll become that much obsessive and
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will have overthink about that, whenever you overthink in relationships
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God will eagerly waiting to give a finishing card for your relationship
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remember solution is always simple
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but the problem is people can't digest the fact
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because, they will have a pre-conciveable notion in their mind, that is
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we have to work more to get desired results, for example
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daily hardwork only yields salary
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everything has a price of hardwork and it's in our mind
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in those situation, you don't need that much hardwork
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and they can't accept my simple solutions during that time, take that married client for example
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his wife lost interest on him, so i suggested for no-contact rule
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but he can't accept that and aksed me more questions
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like bro can I create jelousy?, can I apologise or shout at her?
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as he was so obsessive he can't control his emotions
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so he broke the no-contact and she lost interest even more
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guys, solution is simple if she lost interest, use no-contact rule
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I already explained it's working and just hold with that
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less is more, and don't do many things to win her love
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it will collapse everything, another client came with boy bestie issue
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he and that girl was in relationship for a year and she is not talking well with him now
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as she spends most of her time with her boy bestie
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I asked for more information and understood him well
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he behaved so weakly, be clear
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boy bestie issue has one sloution only, as your character is so weak she never respects you
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and she is spending time with him,
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if you knew earlier about this you won't face this issue
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me and my best friend never faced this issue
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because we always behave strongly
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I had a Ex few years back and she talked about his boy bestie always
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I clearly said to her to never talk about him as I disliked him
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she asked me why and I said I'm not sure about it, then she said that she won't talk about him
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then she never talked to him also, as I'm strong
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I clearly said to my client that he behaved weakly
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you need to change your character so she can listen you
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actually he was a consultation client, he left after that advice and one day all of a sudden he was crying in the voice call
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he said that she had broke up with him and he further explained about the mistakes done by him
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he was constantly scolded and shouted at her
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and he criticized her boy bestie and compared him with that guy
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I already told you guys
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whenever you compare you with others you subconciously saying that
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you have fear of that boy bestie stealing your girl
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and you expressing yourself as a lower value
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if she can love you further, no chance brothers
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he did many things to win her love
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and he went to talk with girl bestie to create jelousy
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now that girl broke up with him, guys be clear if you have boy bestie issues
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solution is very simple your character is very weak
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if you change that she will love you, or if you think she will love you if do many things like making her jelous
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or criticize her or her bestie, it's game over for you
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so guys I posted this video mainly
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warn you to avoid your pre-concieved thoughts of doing complex things
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I hope I explained everything well
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services
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