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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, India's first relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationship coach XXX.
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this is the story of my phone consultation client
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he and that girl are loving for 8 months and the girl is the one who proposed first
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first four months went fine and
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he loved that girl deeply and adored her
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he gave many gifts to her, but
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after the four months she avoided him and sweared at him
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and she speak bad about his family too, so he got depressed
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for past month he is going through Psychiatrist treatment
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he is clueless about what's going on and how to make her to love her
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then he saw our no contact rule video
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then he used that and it went good for him
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so asked me to teach relationship psychology, the first thing I said after hearing his story
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if she is not loving him he is a pure nice guy
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in the start she thought that, he was a
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strong guy, so she proposed him
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but after having a relationship she realised that he was a nice guy
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so I said this is the reason for her hate
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then I teached him the relationship psychology
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then he said that, he is not a nice guy and he always behave strongly
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then also I'm strongly said that he is a nice guy
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and he refused to accept the fact, and he also said that he got 23 marks in one of my video
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and he claimed that he is a strong guy, so this is the topic
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there are two types of nice guys
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number one thing is a girl is not loving you because
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you're a nice guys, firstly if you don't know about nice guys
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we already published a video about nice guys, watch that with the 'i' button and then watch this
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we already seen enough of nice guys in our channel
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there are two types of nice guys and we'll see about that
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if this world has 100% of men then
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5% male are alpha or strong males and 20% are jerks
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remaining 75% are nice guys only
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in this 75%, 30% are pure nice guys
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it means whoever, it may be mother, father
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brother, sister, friends, wife
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lover, boss, watchman whoever
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they will care everyone and love them and do the things for them
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and they will be good at them and expect the same respect, care and love from them
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and they won't get that these are one type of nice guys and we seen them in many places
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they're too soft and they will never say no
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they will always help everyone and will give care and love
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these types are boys are known as good boys
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listen, our mom, dad, friends, wife, lover, sister whoever
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if they say you are a good boy, then you're a nice guy
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they're first type the 30%
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second type is the remaining 40% of people
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these type of guys will behave harshly at their surrounding and peoples
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they will behave strong and attentive
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they will say no if they want, they're perfect, but if it comes to girls
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they will turned off, specially to lover or wife
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they will be slave for them and will say yes to everything
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they will be below at their foot, and will behave to impress them
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they will also willing to sacrifice life for them, for friends they will simply ignore
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they will behave strongly to boys, and for lover, wife or a girl
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they will willing to help them
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then they will behave nicely to that girls
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so those girls will eventually fool them
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they will only behave weak to girls and if we ask them why
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they will say like they can't behave strongly to her only
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they will do this in the fear of losing her
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they will say stories like this
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then they're pure nice guys in that 30% share
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other type will be nice only with girls, lovers and wife
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they're the remaining 40%, whatever
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you're behaving weak and nice to girls
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so what will happen after being nice guy, no girl will willing to love you
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we already posted a video about
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if you're the guy loved by girls, that video was made for general nice guys
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you can check if you exist in the first 30% of nice guys by using that video
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so I gave the link in 'i' button
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and check if you are in that first 30%
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if you escaped that, then there are chances for you being in the second type of 40%
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so I'll post a new video to find that type
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so guys finally we saw about two types of nice guys
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guys if you're a nice guy
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you'll never find happy in girl, money and life
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just get rid of the nice guy persona, otherwise no girl will ever love you
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how to overcome that and behave strong,
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we'll post videos about that soon
