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this is the story of my personal coaching client, actually she had break-up issue for 3 months
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I heard her issue and gave some solution to her for how to behave
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and I said that he will again love you in two months if you followed my instructions
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but she was feared very much and stated that she will join personal coaching
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then she joined, I completely guided her
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everything went smoothly and she showed some messages
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she was done many mistakes while texting as texting has many formats
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the issue with her is in the beginning also
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she may did correct texting as she had no fears, now he has left her
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so now she is making these mistakes with fear of losing him again
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so I explained about how to do right texting
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then only he will be interested and otherwise it will be boring for him
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I taught those format, so I thought it would be useful for you
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I'll teach the original texting format which applies for ex and current partner also
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then your interest will be maintained, let's see
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there are seven major things, we'll look one by one
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1.formal type, there are routine formats
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formal texts like hi, how are you, what are you doing
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be clear, when starting a conversation
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if you use these words then you will look very bored
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because they will know that, who talk formally like these are the ones
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who don't know how to talk, so they use these things routinely
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they will always ask, hi, got food?, how are you?, what are you doing?
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these are the routine things by them
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and when you do this you may look as boring so
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throw away this formal messaging and be casual then only
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they will get interest in you, 2.short text
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like hmm, kk, wru, hru
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it will make the boys irritated, here
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you make them feel that you're not interested in them
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think well if you sent this texts to a guy who is not interesting
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then you will feel to give this short texts when you're not interested in conversation
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okay, he will leave and it has no impact but
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if you talked with the guy you love, then he may think you're not interested
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if you done this routinely, then he will think that
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you're not interested and he will move for next girl
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3.sending essays, some will correct the short messages
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but some will type an essay, for example
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one girl sending essay to her boyfriend
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the issue is he will hate to read all and it will make you look needy
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that will reduce your interest, so correct answer is
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never do short or heavy, just be middle level text
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4.misunderstandable, guys be clear there is one issue in texting
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that is if you're talking with a girl, and while in call
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if I said I'll die in a romantic tone it will convet in that tone
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it will increase interest,
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but if you said the same thing in text
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they won't know about the emotions in that
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so in texting the content will be passed but not the right emotion
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the issue is while in relationship
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if you're close with him it's not a big deal after misunderstanding
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if you're starting new then it's hard to fix
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if you use emoji then it will convey emotion also
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but if you never used emoji then it may get misunderstood
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see there is some difference between fun and being funny
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for example while talking with a girl
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she is cracking a joke then it will look good
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I will think that she is fun and interesting but if she is always like that
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then I'll think she is funny, if you do a standup
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then the everything you say there will be joke and it's not an issue
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you will appear as a comedian, they're liked by all
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but no one will love comedian
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if you're always be like that, then they will use you and just talk for some time and will leave you
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so this is the problem, next 6.make them text you
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girls you're talking with boys, I'm happy but if you always be like that
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then you will appear as lower value and will anyone loves you
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no, then you need to make them fall for you
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so you need to make them express their interest
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so if you always texted him then you're oneside and lower value
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if he texted you
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it means that he values you and have some interest for you
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so if you always texts first then stop that and allow them to text
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next Interview questions, actually I talked with a girl one time
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2 years before, she asked too much of questions and
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not leaving me, and I advised her to become an HR
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she asked why?, I said that even interviews has lesser amount of questions
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she is killing with questions
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see girls, questions is not wrong, but never ask questions always
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that will make conversation as an interview
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so these are 7 texting format, so using this will make them to get interested in you
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