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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach Love Guru
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How to increase the confident while talking with girls,
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many people asking this question to me,
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many ideas and theories are there and we'll see
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a important idea called, 'Nofap'
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if you do nofap for many days, the confident to talk with girls will
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increase drastically, first learn what is nofap, as many will unaware
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nofap is simple, to control masturbation and porn addiction
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there is a community called nofap
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simply controlling masturbation is called as nofap,
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I don't want to confuse you with the term, and many will ask
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"bro, how the confidence to talk with girls will increase after nofap?"
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it's sounds like the comedy from "Ayya" movie
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but the truth is confident to talk with girls and nofap controls
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are interrelated with each other
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if you don't follow nofap, then your confidence will be very low, its 100% true
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now we'll see,
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how confidence to talk with girls will increase after following nofap
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example, if your age is 25, to my knowledge
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most of the boys started masturbating from the age of 14
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why we're starting it from that early age? because we attain sexual feelings from that age
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that means we need sex, but it's not an issue in early days, were they would do child marriages
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we can enjoy, but at present
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you have to forget about that if you won't settle brfore the age of 27
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but the problem is we have feelings so we need sex
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but we have no girl, so what is the option
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we have to do masturbation, if you talk with a girl at in the middle of all of this
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you can feel that you're talking for love, but
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if you think in the point of view of human species, the ultimate goal of this is
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sex, it's not bad, it's about reproduction
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that's why we contact a girl
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now we need sex, now logically
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we talk to a girl and make her to love us in 4 months and then marriage will take 2-3 years
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so the sex will take 2-3 years
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so some people do have sex after 3-4 months of love
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but it will also take 6 months, I don't want to talk about that
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but it will take some time, right
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talking to a girl and make her fall in love with you
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it will took 6 months or 2-3 years however
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instead of trying hard for tthat, I'll take my phone now
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and will see xnxx, naughty america, brazzers kind of sites
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and will do masturbation to get the rquired pleasure in 2 minutes
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so guys, be clear,
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you can get the safe sexual plessure , instead of trying hard and follwing a girl for love
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so you don't need a girl in first place
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it's no need now, second thing is after finishing masturbation
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how you'll feel about you, you'll ashamed of yourself
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you'll feel yourself as a alien while walking on road
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you have no confident even at the scale of hair
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so as you has own pleasure, you don't need a girl and if you try to talk with one
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you're feeling ashamed oif you, so how you'll have that confident
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so first, you won't have that idea
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so are you clear, now you controlled masturbation, still you'll have that feeling
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now also we need sex, but you know that
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masturbation is safe pleasure, but we'll search for real woman
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still we need sex, so we have no other choice, even if it's hard
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we need girls, so need is created now
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second thing is you controlled masturbation now
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you'll feel yourself as superman
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even if you're not as confidence will rise that persona
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okay, you have need and also controlled masturbation
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so hight at confidence and need sex, so
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automatically you will have the attitude to approach a girl
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so be clear, so control nofap and rise your confidence
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okay, guys masturbation is a big issue
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to my knowledge, I know the people who still masturbates even after
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getting married, so don't be likme that your life will be spoiled
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so avoid masturbation completely
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second me and my friend are career focuses
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we both learn about, philosophy, psychology, business, corporate, life
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so we're feared about the way future takes us, that is we need girls
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and there is another group who thinks we dont need girls
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I'm feared about that, so I'll explain about that in another video