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one girl in Insta said that, she was loved by her crush and she don't know why he was not approaching her

she asked me how to make him approach her, so this is the topic today

girls be clear we can talk with boys first but it will look like we're chasing

so it's better to make them to approach us first

we'll see how to do that, and you need to know a general thing about boys

it's the most important one, in 100% of boys only 20% of the boys will behave strongly

they will approach you and remaining 80% are not that much strong

they approaching you is doubtful, so

follow this 7 tips and if your crush likes you

then he will approach you, no 1 is give him easy way

there are more chances of that boy talking to you if you're easily approachable

generally you're staying in a location, and you're alone there

so that boy can easily approach you and if you can't be alone always

like you're with one girl then he may approach you, but there are some girls

they will surrounded by 10 girls always, then how he can talk easily

no one will talk, be clear, if you're always surrounded by 10 girls

and if you want your crush to talk with you, then I'll tell you're a fool

there should be extreme confident for a guy to approach a girl surrounded by girls, I won't tell it's not present in boys

but only 5% of people have that confidence and

don't expect that from your crush as it's rare

so make way for your crush and try to be alone or

be with a single girl, it will help that boy to approach

no 2 eye contact, be clear guys, when you give eye contact to a person

you're telling that you like that guy and creates attraction

this is why we never give more eye contact to our own sex

because if you give eye contact to your own sex

then it means that you're lesbian or you want to fight them

similarly in boys it will be like gay or asking for a fight

so girls, if you have good eye contact with opposite sex

subconsiously you say that you love that boy

and you have high chance of getting him, for that

some girls will change their look suddenly without knowing eye contact methods

if you do like that it tells that you hate them so never do that

some girls will look too long with neediness

you will look needy and that too is a mistake, so act rightly

eye contact should be 3-4 seconds

is enough and that boy will approach you

no 3 is mood, be clear in psychology

the most important thing is people will pickup our moods, if you're in a street and a boy is approaching you

and he is confident and casual and if interested you will react in same way

another boy is approaching with fear and trembling body

he looks anxious and nervous, so

will you talk with them, no right

if you want to approached by your crush you need to be casual in front of that boy

or if you be nervous infront of him due to your liking

and then if that boy looks your anxious self

it will uncomfort him and reduce the chance of approach

many boys will behave in fear, due to their love for them

it will reduce the chance, so be casual infront of him

no 4 is gaurd, I already mentioned about gaurd in a video

and if you want to gain knowledge about that check that video

I'll tell simply, how we will be at our home, we'll be casual and joyful

but how we'll be at a newly joined company

we'll be stiff and sturdy at the first day to getting misused by others

it's called bitch face in english

don't mistake me of using a bad word

it has a term in english, it's RBF that is resting bitch face

it means sad, robotic or irritated face reaction

they call this as bitch face and

if you have this kind of face the boy who looks will think that

you will hit him with slipper if he approached you

so there will be no chance of getting approached by him,

sometimes you try to protect him, then this face is okay

but if you want boys to approach you, then don't keep this face, 5th point is how you speak to others

example you're at gym and there is one boy

that guy is not talking to others and othesr do the same

he was like a robo, do you wish to talk with him?, no

there is another guy who talks well with others vice versa

he is casual, so you do want to talk with him

similarly if you never talk to anybody in gym

no one will feel to talk with you so you feel like wierdo and no one will talk with you

so if you talk well with others then you're a comfortable type and

all boys wants to talk with you so your crush

no 6 is indirect speech, whatever that guy maybe shy or feared even if he likes you

whatever he is not talking, so

we'll make that guy comfortable with indirect talk, like your shoe looks good, where did you get this?

like these interactive questions, whatever

just talk two lines to make him comfortable

we casually talked with that boy so he clearly knows that

we won't reject that boy after the conversations

so he will talk with us, 7th one is smile

mostly I'll tell to avoid this, except for situations where all other steps failed

if you love that boy desperately, then use this

just smile at him, then he will think that

you're giving signal to talk with him

then that boy will talk with you, after all this if that boy still ignores you

then there is two problems here, one is he has no interest in you

and he is saying that clearly here

loving such guys is big mistake, so leave that

second if that guy is not talking with you after all of this, then that guy lacks confident

even after these things he is not talking

so he has no chance and think if you need a confident less guy, better avoid him

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