Love is a beautiful thing, but our boys has a habit of doing silly mistakes which spoils the love and ends in break-up

if you avoid the mistakes which I'm going to mention in this video, then your love life will stay cute

and it won't end in break-up,these are very small mistakes only and many of us doing this

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First mistake is, while at the early stage of love our boys will listen and obey all the things girls says

they will respect their opinion, and gradually they will argue like "why I should obey and follow your words?"

they will react like " I won't need your opinions"

really I don't know the exact reason for this, but if you react like this

then it will hurt that girl regularly,

you need to listen her words and respect her opinions, if you avoid that

it will cause a break-up in the end, If you think, "they do break-up for this?"

surely, as those things will hurt her it will lead to a break-up

I'm not saying that you need to blindly follow everything she says,

you need to listen to her ideas adn respond, if it's wrong

then try to explain gently, and don't argue

and avoid hate speech always

next thing is, doubt, It's a big problem and big mistake

most of our boys never doubt their life partners mostly

very few persons only have doubts on their partners

but most of boys are doing the mistake due to possessiveness

like if when that girl talks to other boys, you will say like "you like hime only, so you're talking to him"

or if they talk about a actor or singer

you will talk like "you like that person only and I think you don't like me"

these things fall under possessiveness only but if you do it repeatedly

without your knowledge you will speak like "going out is wrong", " you always spend time with him while outing"

if she happened to spend her time in any spot you will ask like "with whom you went to that place?, which boy you tried to meet?"

and you will talk rubbish like this, but in our heart

we'll never have any doubt on her, but after talking like this it will happen frequently

after some time hearing these words she will think like, " what is wrong with him?, he always doubt me for whatever I do? "

then she will leave you and it will end in a break-up surely

doubt is a big mistake and don't do that mistake with your life partner

don't say like those things even for a casual talk, do trust her

then your life will be happy and avoid those doubtful speech

next thing is not appreciating her , girls love to get appreciated by others

if she worn a new dress or done any cooking she will share that things with you first

they will expect you to appreciate her for those things, but in reality our boys mostly never appreciate

in starting stages, you will say like " you look like an angel to me", "I missed having the tasty food you cooked, it's very appealing to look"

and gradually you will be like, "oh that's all right", " you done these thing only!"

"okay, these dress looks okayish", you will maintain this tone and avoid to appreciate her

not only for dress, cooking for whatever things she does you never appreciate her

if you won't appreciate her, after some days she will think like "I think he is not liking me anymore"

"he is not the same person who I met initially, I think he lost the interest on me"

they will think like that, so you need to stop her from thinking like that

and you will need to appreciate her on all the times even if things goes wrong, she will expect an appreciation

so give proper appreciation

that will make her happy and it will help to run your life smoothly

this advice is not only for lovers it's also for married persons

if you follow this thing properly your life will be joyful

next thing is fighting on everything, fighting for all things and reasons

initial stages of love will travel smoothly, till a small fight happens and then it will continously happen

small fight in the sense, I mean majorly our boys will fight for what?

there is no person who never fought over dressing,

if that girl worn a tee or sleeveless even if they're at home

if they share pics with those dresses, you will ask like "why are you weariong this?"

and they will scold them awkwardly and that fight will go big

you can tell gently and openly and avoid scolding like

"This dress is fine, but the dress you wore two months before was better than this, that blue colour dress, you looked like an angel in the dress"

talk like that and they will wear that dress from next time automatically

they will send pics with that dress and only and they will wear those dress only while going outside, this is a smart move

if you say like this indirectly,

she won't get hurt and she will follow your words

like this our boys will fight for many small things, so hereafter

avoid fighting over small things and try to understand her

and try to change those thing with smart moves

it's no use in scolding her openly which results a sorrow situation for you only

next mistake is, if you are perfect at something

don't expect your life partner to be perfect at the same thing

I will say a simple example, if you say that you will free after 4O'clock and tell her to spend time after 4 with you

and you will wait from 4, if she was unable to come and talk with you

and if she arrive late at 4.15 or 4.30 then you will argue and have a fight with her

and you will say things like you're arrived at perfect time and she doesn't so she have no interest on you

if you expect perfection at these kind of small things then it's a very bad thing

nobody in this world is perfect at everything, even

you can't be perfect at all the things, the same goes for your life partner also and you need to understand

and you don't need to fight for that, so from now on

so don't expect her to be perfect at everything and your commands, instead try to understand her situations

next thing is hiding secrets from her

I will say one thing openly,

our boys can't maintain a secret, even a if they want't to hide that secret

after some day, we'll blabber surely and

it will make her feel hurt as she will think "why he never told this to me in the first place?"

she will feel that she was treated with less importance

so you will need to share all the things happen to you, either good or bad you have to share with her

that will give a relief to you also and

she will like that also, another thing is girls are very smart if you hide some thing from her she can easily find that

they will try to get some secrets from you while talking random things, but if you hide secrets in that time also

and then if she finds that secret finally at some point she will get hurt and also get angry with you

so don't have any secrets with your life partner

that will help you to lead a happy life, that's all guys

Comment what are the mistakes you have done already from the things I have mentioned and mention other mistakes also

which costed your love or had a big impact on your life

do comment so me and others will know and others will try to avoid that mistakes

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