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guyswhether you're approaching life or relationship

we need to change ourselfto be better

but for that we need to know about ourselves

that's very important

in this video we'll see if you're a boy or man

the issue is I saw many people who are in their 40s still behave like a boy and

inversed persons also exists, like matured persona in a 16 year old boy

so first learn if you're boyish or manly

then I'll explain whether it's okay to being boyish in your 40s

being a matured man while being 16

so from your looks 7 things can determoine if you're boyish or manly

boyish never meant small boy

I refer post teen behaviour of a 23-24 year old boy

see one thing, these boyish guys are

will always pick colourful things for their clothing

regardless of their outfits. shoes and accessories

everything will look colourful and they prefer dark colours

they unaware of light colours, for example they are like Shivakarthikeyan from MaanKarate

they will war colourful outfits

these manly guys will wear simple and light colours like black, white

they will also wear colourful dresses but on rare ocassions

they knew that it's immature to wear colourful outfits

so they will prefer black, white and light colours

2nd thing is dress, these boyish people will mostly wear tees

they will also wear shirts but mostly they will wear tees

they will also prefer sneakers and casual shoes only

this shows that their goal is to express a young vibe

they will project like this, matured men will dress like

mostly shirts they also wear tees, but most of the time

they prefer shirts and they will also wear casual shoes

but their goal is to avoid that young vibe

they want to project them as matured guy

they hate them being projected as young guy

3rd is physique, these boyish preople will look lean or

maintain lean body, you may ask that does leanliness is not manly?

yes, it's not, for example take Adharva

you will never say him as a maninessperson you prefer to call him as a chocolate boy

these manly guys will have good muscles, like

Sarath Kumar, do you call him as a boy, you will call him as a man

you can't think any other word, be clear

manly guys will have good muscle, 4th thing is full shave or lite beard

if you have clean shave face then you will look boyish like Ranbeer kapoor

for light beard example

I'll give Dhruv Vikram from Adithya Varma and

he will also looks like boy and for beard

a good beard will look good, recently sarath kumar posted pics from his photoshoot

if you saw that you will tell that he is masculine and majestic

ypu will call him as 'the man', good beard will make you look manly

actually I had one gym master in my gym, he looks so manly

we boys get jelous of him

if possible i'll put a video about him and you can understand from his looks

about manliness, 5th ism watch

this boysih guys will wear smart watch, digital watches and colour ful watches

they will hate leather and metal strapped watches

manly guys only prefer leather and metal strapped watches and

specifically analogue watches with silver, gold and black colour only

they will avoid other colours, 6th general thing

the things you do in the name of 'pullingo' style will make you look boyish

some small shops near scool will sell strap bands for arms, chains with axe or knife

these kind of things will make you look boyish only

except if you have good physique it will make you look manly

if you watched 'Ashiqui 2' movie Adithya Roy Kapoor will have ropes tied in his hand

for his physique that looks cool and masculine

that will look sexy also, if you have normal physique and wear these things

it will make you look boyish and good physique will elevate the manliness

but mostly manly people will have gold chain

or holy chain and nothing else

7th one is hairstyle, the hairstyle you think that will make you look stylishly

will be boyish regardless of it's name

if you want to project yourself as stylish person it's boyish only

men will have simple cuts only for example

Dan Bilzerian's hairstyle simple cut that give the man look

bonus idea, while choosing bikes these boyish people will go for

ktm, cbr, R15 where manly people will go for

rough and tough bike like bullet

be clear, the difference between these two is attitude only

be clear, boyish people wants to project them as young guys

so they do things that exert young vibes

manly people wants to showcase themself as matured people

so their things are like this, some people are mixtue of both

as their attitude is inbetwen two and those are rare ones

finally guys I'll never say that being boyish is not attractive, some things in that are really attractive

the thing I'm saying is for this video

it's for you to understand if you're boyish or manly

be clear with that, in next video

can I be boyish regardless of my age? or be manly?, which is right?

what is wrong? whether I need to transfrom from one to other?

I'll explain that in another video

because many do wrong things and make their soul unhappy

so I'll post that in next video, so wait

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