most wanted topic is nice guy to bad guy transformation as many are requested for this

it's a hot and interesting topic, 'nice guy to bad guy'

do you need to become a bad boy from being a good one, definitely not

but it's for to achieve our better version

if we're a normal person and if we do achieve the better version of ourselves,

others will see us as a unique and interesting person

for that what we're going to do, we'll see about that in this video

more tthan 80% of the guys in our native are nice guys only

so we'll see clearly about how to transform, don't forget to like this video

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its the most common mistake of the nice guys, we'll see an example,

now college will be opened and you went there, you sew a friend there

you will share all the things about you with them including the age you started wearing underwear to getting scold by your mother, you don't need to be a open book

don't be a library also, if you be like that you will get fooled

and they will see as a degraded person

be a mysterious person, be a diary instead of a open book

you need to keep some secrets and if you reveal everything then you'll have no value

most of them are doing this mistake and if you want to leave the nice guy persona

never do this mistake and don't share everything with everyone

share the thigs supposed to share and

even if you want to share everything please do control your feelings

sharing will make your value low, so

maintain your secrets like a diary also

don't talk too much, reduce your talks and increase your smiles

if you do smiling often instead of talking,

your value will be upgraded and as being mysterious

it will increase others interests on you

if we know everything about the hero's character then the movie will become boring

the same goes for this, so don't be a boring one and become a interesting person

so be diary and not a book, next one is

be like the lyrics " whatever may happen and I'll be happy"

you need to be more carefree, and don't get everything in your head

you may have many negative things around you, but follow thalapathy's saying, 'Ignore negativity'

ignore that bad things,

don't feel low by getting all the negative things and thoughts in your mind and be positive

something is wrong, okay it may happen, we need to do things better in the next time

we need to do things better and best in the next chance

you need to take all the bad things as a learning and need to move forward, you don't need to get worried all the time

if you still worried it won't be useful, for example

why everyone is calling M.S.Dhoni as captain cool?, because even if he have any tough situations

he will handle those with his cool attitude and calmness

so he is known as captain cool and everyone likes him, so

you also need to stop worrying and have to find solutions and do things better

if you try this it will help you to find your better version quickly

so be more care free, next we need to improve your style

it plays a vital role in shaping your better version

take me as an example, not only me, many of our guys

as I have talked to many I personally know that, everyone thinks that they will look better in full sleeve shirts , checked shirts only

and they reject half sleeve shirts,

they will always wears full sleeves only

take me as an example, I also had the same mindset, now recently I'm wearing sweatshirts a lot

also hoodies, half sleeve shirts.

I don't get any negative or bad comments for wearing them

they will simply ask like, where did I get those?, and the will greet the outfits in a good way

I'm getting more compliements only, so

also applies for you, we'll have fear until trying a newstyle, but once gets used to it

we'll get compliements and it will motivate us

so improve your style and concentrate on your dress

wear hoodies, sweat shirts and mainly shirts with half sleeves

My instagram has 60k followers, I'm trying new outfits

and posting on my insta, it will give new ideas to others and I'm also getting compliments

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change your dressing style without thinking and changing won't affect you

do try, next thing plays a major role in improving our style

it's hairstyle, growing too much of hair or

keeping a messy hairstyle will never look good on you

always keep a sharp and crisp hairstyle and it will

instantly upgrade your level, so concentrate on improving your style

that will make your better version to appear quickly, next one is

learn to say 'no' and don't alter yourself for situations

what to do?, we'll have an example, all of our nice guys will do like this,

now we have a common friend who is very close to us

that friend will be playing PUBG or watching movie at his home

they will call us and will request us to do their work like buying things for them or getting their packages

after hearing this we'll consider this as they're our friend

and we'll think that we can do for them even if we have some work

and you will end up doing their tasks

at last you will have no use by doing those things and they've simply used you

in some cases some will ask for genuine help, as may be they've held up in some other places like other cities

you can help them in those situations, but if they're free and assign jobs to you

as they think you as a dumb fool,

so don't be like a use and throw thing,

say 'no' openly and tell your reasons casually

don't think those requests as essential ones to do

don't alter for situations and if you have some job and you leave that for those useless tasks, you don't need to do that

instead you can explain as you have works to do and reject it will be finished simply

after one or two times they won't ask you again for those kind of requests

and note this, this methode will only set for the friend who try to make use of us

some friends will ask for true help and it's good to do for them

you know that who are loyal to you and who tries to use you

but don't do the help for just the sake of friendship, and learn to say no

also don't change for situations, next one is

if you have a chance to speak, for example in a office meeting

even if you have chance to speak, you may be silent and observe others sayings and try to speak later

but instead you can take a lead, speak your opinion confidently

your opinion won't harm others and others won't say anything bad about it

so speak boldly and take the lead

next, your character will boost and show yourself as a unique and better person

this is not only for work situations, even in your friend's gang

or in college discussions, don't hesitate to talk first or wait for others to start

you need to be a lead and it will surely improve your personality and also

it shows your level upgraded to others, so from now

dont be a shy one and be the one who takes the lead, and the last thing is

be a confident person, I'm not mentioning over-confident

but be confident in certain things,

many of us think like if we do this thing it may be wrong for us

it won't suit use, we don't need to take risk, they will have these thoughts,

train yourself for talking risk and believe in yourself

even if you can't reach 100%,

we may reach 70-80% perfectly, so

don't hesitate to take risk, and be confident

and d your things, and confident is a big step

in our personality improvement, so from now

be a confident person and try to take risks, that's all guys

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