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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, India's first relationship coaching channel, I'm your relationship coach XXX
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this is the story of my phone consultation client
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that girl and her lover is in long distance relationship
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he is working in Australia
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everything was going well for her, but still she has some fear
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she has the fear of him cheating her with any Australian women
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she loves him so much and she wants him
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and she asked me about how she can carry this long distance relationship into a marriage
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okay this is the topic of the day,
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how we can convert a long distance relationship into a marriage
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I'm telling clearly that you need 3 rules for a successful long distance relationship
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first rule is to believe the relationship
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the problem is long distance relationship couples have
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fear of getting cheated by their partner due to the distance
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it will remain always and that too
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when their partner is living in a modern city
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they will die in fear, the issue is
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you lack half of your belief so you can't speak correctly
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you can't do anything right, you do everything in a half mind
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being like this will result in everything is going wrong for you
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you will fight with them if they talked with some other boy/girl
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you will fight for late replies and you will over think unwantedly
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and you will spoil that long distance relationship with trust issues
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a 2014 research says that,
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people who are in long distance relationship are more happier than people who are in closed circle relationship
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so never doubt about long distance relationship
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just believe that relationship and it will
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give happiness for you
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second is fixing visits, one thing important in relationship is
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time will fade your attraction
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if you do the same thing again and again, then you'll lose your interest on that
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for example, people in long distance relationship will
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always do chat, call and skype. chat, call and skype
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chat, call and skype. chat, call and skype
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now you're not talking the relationship to the next part and you just
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doing a single rotine and it will
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make your partner bored at you and push away them from you
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so try to fix frequent dates and have a meet
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try to meet as much as possible
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if you just have conversation in online, it will be boring for her
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so try to make fixed visits to maintain the interest level
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rule number three is long term plan, in this
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I want you to set a plan
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like where you will stand in your relationship at the near future
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planning like this is important as unplanning will
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make your life vague, so what it would look like in 5 years
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what it will be like in 3 years
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for example we'll marry in 5 years and then after 2 years we'll have a baby
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if you set end goals like this, both of you will
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work for that and plan to earn according to your marriage plans
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and what are the things you need to say for convince your parents
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then you'll work like this and your relationship will be happier for you
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even if you have small or big problems between you
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as you have marriage end goal and worked for that
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both of your mind will convince to not have a break up
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so if you want to be happy in long distance relationship
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follow this three rules, 1.believe the relationship
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2.fixing visits, 3.creating a long term plan
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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