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welcome to "Love Guru" channel, I'm your relationship coach love guru
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this is the story of a phone consultation client, he got break-up 2 years before
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now that girl got married and after watching your videos, I learned that I'm a nice guy
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so that girl left me and I knew that
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I'm sure that she won't come back to me again
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she got married for a year and I still can't forget her, I'm disturbed
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this two years I'm like a madman and having sucidal thoughts
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I'm worried and can't do anything
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and he feared about wasting his life
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he was talking very sadly,
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I knew his problems and explained about that
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guys please learn, after breakup you need to notice the things happening in life
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I already know about this issue and
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for you guys I'm gathering details from Internet to explain clearly
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PTSD- Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is a mental issue
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to be explained simply, after a tragic event
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it will happen in our life, like
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losing our closed ones to death like parents, lovers etc
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or you failed in your career
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the career path is destroyed and you can't fix that
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like these events the aftermath effects are called
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as PTSD, to relate this in relationship topic
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after your crush rejected or lover left you
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or getting break-up from your lover
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the things you faced is PTSD
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this PTSD will ruin your social and personal life
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this PTSD symptoms can last from days to years
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there are 4 major symptoms fro this PTSD
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one is Intrusive memories 2nd one is avoidance
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3rd is negative thinking and 4th is changes in emotional behaviour
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we'll see about these 4 in detail now
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the first issue will be recurring memories
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this issue will feel like repeatedly happening
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if you had break-up you will feel that daily
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upsetting dreams, you will wakeup in the middle of the night
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and you will cry for her and
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you feel that things again and will cry at 2 A.M
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we'll stressed out emotionally
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the all physical things you look at will kill you
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like her favourite ringtone, colour, vehicle or actor
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after seeing the things she likes and related to her
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will stress you, next is avoidance
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we try to get rid of things related to her
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like people related to her, we try to avoid those
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but we can't do that, 3rd symptom is negative thinking
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we will thing bad about us and others
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we're weak, we're good for nothing, we'll tell this to others
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will look upset and we'll hopeless about future
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I saw many people, break-up, crush or divorce issue, whatever
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if they had this they will think that their life will last like this only
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they think that no one will love them
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example is my friend's senior in work got
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break-up in 25 and even after hitting 35
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he live hopeless and not getting married
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difficulty in maintaining close relationship, we can't get close with anyone
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either it maybe your mom,dad or friends
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we'll spend time alone by listening songs like that
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we can't able to do small things we did we enjoyed all those years
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expample will be you may enjoy playing cricket for many years
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but now you're unable to play now
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you can't accept happy things like joke
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you may give meh reactions and be sturdy
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to be simple, you will be like emotionally dead body
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next one is changes in emotional behaviour, like fearing for small things
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try to be protective after thinking all things are danger
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and you will have self-destructive behaviours
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like drinks, drugs and excessive masturbation
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having issues in sleeping, shouting at others with anger
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and you will have guilt of shame even if the mistake was her's
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you will think that you are the wrong one
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you will blame yourself and be negative
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and you will have frequent sucide thoughts
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be clear, you may rejected are left by crush
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whatever it's all due to PTSD for 90%
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rare 5% people only able to be strong
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they can recover without having PTSD
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it's proven that it will took 1.5 years to forget every 5 year relationship
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the issue is, if you have 5 years relationship
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this PTSD may last more than 1.5 years
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and now you have more sucide thoughts
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guys please refer a doctor or psychiatrist or me
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to cure this issue
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because heavy PTSD will leave you in bad situation
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if you want to make your crush to love you, solve your relationship issue, get back your Ex
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we'll listen and give solutions for any issues like these ones
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by doing phone consultations and personal coaching services
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we'll listen to your issues and will make your partner to love you back
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