How To Tell If Someone Is Faking Dissociative Identity Disorder

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"Here’s how to tell if someone is genuine or fake
Fake people and genuine people can look the same on the surface, but underneath they’re nothing alike.
The key difference is sincerity.
Fake people may act nice, but they just do it to get something or manipulate. Their words may sound wonderful, but they’re just saying it to butter you up or get something.
Genuine people don’t try to manipulate people and if they say something they mean it. They help people because they can, not to get something from it.
The difference couldn’t be bigger.
Are they ‘fake nice’ or genuinely nice?
Some of the biggest personal parasites out there are fake nice people. They’re all over, but they can be hard to spot.

1) They lead people on with sweet lies
Fake people tend to be major people pleasers. They want to make everyone happy in order to get what they want.
Deep down, they don’t care. But outwardly they will say all the right things and check all the right boxes.
The end result is that they end up leading a lot of people on in relationships, career and every other way.
When this happens, you’ll feel drained and frustrated.
“Notice how you feel when you’re with this person, and afterward. Are they draining you?” asks spirituality writer Sarah Regan.
If the answer is yes, you’re likely dealing with someone who’s full of sh*t.
2) They cancel plans constantly
One of the biggest ways for how to tell if someone is genuine or fake is paying attention to whether they keep their word.
Fake people cancel constantly. Whether they invited you out or vice versa, they have no shame in cancelling at the last minute.
They treat you as a fallback option or ditch you as soon as there’s nothing in it for them.
The result is that you feel used, low value and confused. That’s why fake people are so harmful to your wellbeing.
“Fake people are toxic, and they don’t have a long shelf life, but they can do significant damage to you within that short period, and hence they need to be weeded out in time,” advises Devika Malik.
3) They love to spread rumors and gossip
Rumors and gossip are catnip to fake people. It’s practically their chosen currency.
They traffic in drama and rumors and love to mock and insult people behind their back by talking about the messed up things going on with other people.
Remember that what they can do to others they will also do to you. In fact, they probably already are.
Their pathetic attempts at puffing their own ego and enjoying other people’s misfortunes are not something you want to have any part in.
4) They act nice all the time even when they’re pissed off
Genuine people have bad days and don’t always act like a paragon of virtue.
Fake people have a smile plastered on and never even admit when they’re upset. They just passive-aggressively sabotage you and cut you down while pretending they’re doing well.
The truth is that everyone gets upset sometimes or loses their temper.
People who never do can seem great on the outside, but they’re fake.
All that fake niceness can easily turn into aggressive toxic venom behind closed doors, so be careful of anyone who’s too perfect on the outside.
5) They’re only around when they need something from you
At some point or other, all of us have rough patches. That’s where it’s nice to know we can lean on our friends and trust those who are close to us.
But a fake person will be nowhere to be found.
When they wanted your help finding a job with a friend of yours they are all smiles and texting a mile a minute.
But now that you have an issue or even just need a hand moving? They’ve dropped off the map.
“Disappearing acts are common among fake people,” writes Lachlan Brown at Hack Spirit.
“They hang around when they get what they need from you, but the minute you need something from them, they bail.”
6) They subtly cut you down and compete with you
Deep down, fake people are insecure and jealous strivers. They don’t like when others succeed.
7) They always want the spotlight to be on them
Fake people are attention hogs who are obsessed with themselves.
They are emotionally manipulative narcissists who need to turn the limelight onto them in order to feel a sense of identity and worth.
For this reason, you will notice that when talking to or interacting with them, they constantly seem to relate everything back to them and how great or important they are.
As couples therapist Dr. Stephanie Azri notes:
“Is the focus always on them, no matter the topic?
If yes, you’re probably dealing with a fake person."
References:
https://ideapod.com/fake-vs-genuine-people-8-ways-identify/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WvaNTCfcQ4
Quora: https://www.quora.com/How-do-you-tell-if-someone-is-faking-a-DID-dissociative-identity-disorder-system

YouTube url:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TjtX43oAeWE
Created:	7. 3. 2022 22:28:40

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