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We have heard many advices from parents, elders and our friends since our childhood
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and we're tired of too much advices, even if you grow old
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you will definitely give some sort of advice to youngsters, and it's okay if it's in a good way
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but many are giving wrong advices only
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we'll see about what wrong advices from our elders that we need avoid clearly in this video
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the first advice is, get married and you will become more responsible person
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most people say words to boys of 23-24 age like "you have not married yet?"
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"marriage will make you a responsible person, and getting a bride is very hard nowadays"
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"he just wander carelessly only and if you arrange marriage for him he will become responsible"
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many will tell those things and I personally heard that and
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my some of my friends too have married for these reasons
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I just remembered those things as, these 2K kids are on next level
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and I think they are making these couple comedies due to those advices
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okay we can leave that thing, If you have not achieved anything in your life yet and have no ideas and speaking about goals
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going to a good job, buying a house or earn at least to manage own house
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many persons will have goals like this but for some reasons
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they may not achieve those goals yet, but you should only marry after achieving those goals
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but if you follow that worse advice of getting married to be responsible
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you will get divorce notice within a year or two and it will also spoil the life of that girl also
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so first go to a proper job and achieve your goals
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then go think about marriage, even if your parents force you to marry
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request them to give some time and ensure them you will achieve something
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don't listen that advice ever again, the next advice is
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it's the most common advice told by many, that is
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"if you work hard in this time period you will be free to be happy and enjoy your life in the later part"
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we work hard to learn in school to reach college and there also we do hardwork to get good grades
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to get good job, then in the job too, we think like we need to work hard, earn more money
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so then only we will be happy in our life and we follow this process but in the end we die
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so sorry to say like this, but the thing is we need
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to enjoy in life too, and give happiness to our life
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don't just do work only and following your goals alone only
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then you will have no happiness and you will see no happiness when you turnback and see from your life history
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and will give the sorrow feeling of missing many things, so we need to do hardwork also
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we need to be happy and you have to spare some time for you and
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do the things you like in that time, I hope you can understand what I'm trying to say
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even elders think like only way we can be happy is earning aand earning only
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don't have that kind of thought in your mind
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earning is important, whatever is your earning, do spend some time time for yourself
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involve in the things you like,
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its better to try the plans you have in your young age than being a salaried person till the last minute of your life
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don't focuse only on hardwork, spend some time for you then you will be happy and your work
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will be proper also, and it's good for your mind, so don't follow this advice blindly
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just enjoy your life also, next one is a most common advice
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all boys and girls of this world
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have suffered heavily from this advice, that is comparison
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"see the neighbor's kid he is good at studies, do you know how much he earns?"
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"he is better than you" these kinds of advices are
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told by many parents, for me
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I personally know how much it will affect you, as I also crossed these things in life
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don't give attention to that comparison advices
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it's parent's lack of knowledge and we can't blame them
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but you don't need to think too much about that and getting sad due to those advices are unnecessary
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whatever the tell, if you lack in study
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you can achieve in something else, you have to find that thing
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or if you are good at studies and poor at other things then study well and get a good job
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even if they told those things initially, once you achieve something
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they will appreciate you definitely, I personally faced this
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after finishing college they criticized me for not going to a job
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but after I done a proper thing and I got a reach and earnings from this
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they are also supporting me now, so you have to
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avoid those advices and
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develop yourself in things that you like and things that you know
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and reach a good position using those skills and I hope you will do definitely
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after you succeed your parents will praise you surely
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next advice is "whatever happens it's good for you, and everything has a reason behind it"
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definitely it's not like that, if we commit a mistake then there will be something wrong will happen
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if you do good deeds then good things will happen, but if you
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say like " even if you commit a wrong thing it has a reason" it will make me angry
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it will make me tensed if someone say this to me, I done something wrong then I need to rectify that thing
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you can advice how to rectify doing mistakes, instead if you say "it's okay, everything is for good" it will make us angry
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personally it will make me angry,
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In this world nothing will happen without any external force
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if you do something, then only it will cause good or bad results
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so do the things properly, even if you miss those things try to develop
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don't leave like it's also for good,
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and think how to improve bad results
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try hard tehn only you will reach success and if you take it too lightly
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then you will have no upgrade, so avoid this advice also
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next advice is happens over our friends, it's kind of a conversation
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atleast one of your friend will say like
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"if you marry a rich girl you will be happy in your life"
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you will heard this from atleast one person in your life
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even one of my friend told this to me in last month
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if you marry a rich girl your life will move towards a dark side
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I never try to blame you, but if you love a girl for this motive alone then
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love will never exist there and even if you marry
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there will be no love and care, don't think like "what rubbish he is talking"
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but you have to love a girl from your heart and not for money
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so never take this advice from anyone
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even if you have that thought, just throw away that
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first we need to earn, that maybe 10k, 20k, 6 or 7K whatever our capacity allow us to earn
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then we have to develop, if you does this our parents will arrange a marriage for us
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or there is a chance you might get loved by the girl you like
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or the girl you love may accept your love also and don't love anyone for money or rich life
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don't take that advice, that's all guys
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what are the advices you heard in your life from the mentioned ones and what advice do you hate the most
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